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2 Samuel13:1–22

Amnon and Tamar

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2 Samuel 13:1–22 — Amnon and Tamar. Each verse below carries the full apparatus: the Berean Standard Bible, the vocalized original (tap any word), and a parsed breakdown of every term transcribed from the interlinear. Synthesized commentary, canonical threads, and the reading of Christ gather at the end, over the whole unit.

1“After some time, David’s son Amnon fell in love with Tamar, the …”+

1After some time, David’s son Amnon fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of David’s son Absalom.

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Hebrew — tap a word ↓

way·hî ’a·ḥă·rê- ḵên dā·wiḏ ben- ’am·nō·wn way·ye·’ĕ·hā·ḇe·hā tā·mār yā·p̄āh ’ā·ḥō·wṯ ū·šə·māh dā·wiḏ ben- ū·lə·’aḇ·šā·lō·wm

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-it-came-to-pass after so: and-to-Absalom son-of-David a-sister beautiful, and-her-name Tamar; and-he-loved-her Amnon son-of-David.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וַיְהִ֣י אַֽחֲרֵי־כֵ֗ן וַיְהִ֣י (way·hî, H1961 hâyâh) with אַֽחֲרֵי־כֵ֗ן is not a clock reading. BSB's “After some time” invents an interval; the Hebrew says only “and it came to pass after so.” Ellicott: the formula “applies to the narrative which follows as a whole.” Pulpit adds that it “has little chronological force.” It is a seam, not a date.
  • וַיֶּאֱהָבֶ֖הָ וַיֶּאֱהָבֶ֖הָ (way·ye·’ĕ·hā·ḇe·hā, Qal consecutive imperfect of ʼâhab, H157) — “and he loved her.” BSB's “fell in love” reads as romance; the verb is the plain covenant-and-affection verb, and Strong's own gloss admits the range “to have affection for (sexually or otherwise).” Gill insists it was “not in an honourable way, to make her his wife, but in a lustful manner.” The narrator withholds judgment; v. 15 supplies it.
  • וּשְׁמָ֣הּ וּשְׁמָ֣הּ (ū·šə·māh, H8034 shêm) — “and her name [was].” BSB drops the clause entirely. The Hebrew names her deliberately, before the violence: she is not “the girl” but Tamar. Cambridge: “Tamar means palm-tree.”
  • אָח֥וֹת אָח֥וֹת (ʼâchôwth, H269) — “sister.” BSB renders it once; the Hebrew of the whole unit will repeat it until it becomes an accusation. Here it is attached to Absalom, not to Amnon — the narrator's first quiet signal of where the reckoning will come from.
Word by word14 · parsed+
וַיְהִ֣יway·hîAfter some timeH1961
√ hâyâh — to exist, iConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
hâyâh — to exist, to come to pass The narrative seam that opens the second half of David's reign. Benson reads it as the hinge of Nathan's word: “Now began another part of Nathan's prophecy.”
אַֽחֲרֵי־’a·ḥă·rê-. . .H310
√ ʼachar — properly, the hind partPreposition
כֵ֗ןḵên. . .H3651
√ kên — properly, set uprightAdverb
דָּוִֽד׃dā·wiḏDavid’sH1732
√ Dâvid — David, the youngest son of JesseNounpropermasculine singular
בֶּן־ben-sonH1121
√ bên — a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or condition, etcNounmasculine singular construct
אַמְנ֥וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיֶּאֱהָבֶ֖הָway·ye·’ĕ·hā·ḇe·hāfell in loveH157
√ ʼâhab — to have affection for (sexually or otherwise)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singularthird person feminine singular
ʼâhab — to have affection for (Qal) The verb is morally neutral in itself; it is the same root used of Jonathan's love for David and of God's love for Israel. Here it is loaded with a suffix (“her”) and then, at v. 15, set against sânêʼ (H8130, hate) in a deliberate pair. The narrator lets the reader call it love for fourteen verses and then withdraws the word.
תָּמָ֑רtā·mārwith TamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
יָפָ֖הyā·p̄āhthe beautifulH3303
√ yâpheh — beautiful (literally or figuratively)Adjectivefeminine singular
yâpheh — beautiful The adjective belongs to the sister, not to the desire. Scripture's habit is to name beauty just before it becomes a danger (Sarai, Rachel, Bathsheba, Abigail); the word is descriptive, never blaming.
אָח֥וֹת’ā·ḥō·wṯsisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular
וּשְׁמָ֣הּū·šə·māhH8034
√ shêm — an appellation, as amark or memorial of individualityConjunctive wawNounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
דָּוִ֛דdā·wiḏof David’sH1732
√ Dâvid — David, the youngest son of JesseNounpropermasculine singular
בֶּן־ben-sonH1121
√ bên — a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or condition, etcNounmasculine singular construct
וּלְאַבְשָׁל֧וֹםū·lə·’aḇ·šā·lō·wmAbsalomH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidConjunctive waw, Preposition-lNounpropermasculine singular
ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Absalom He is named before Amnon, and Tamar is filed under him. Ellicott and Cambridge agree that Absalom and Tamar were full siblings, children of Maacah of Geshur, while Amnon was David's firstborn by Ahinoam — a half-brother only.
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Now began another part of Nathan’s prophecy, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, to be awfully fulfilled On David
Tamar means palm-tree . The Arabs still frequently give their daughters the names of trees distinguished for their grace, beauty, or fruitfulness.
not in an honourable way, to make her his wife, but in a lustful manner, to make an harlot of her
Gill reads Amnon's motive back from v. 15; the verb in v. 1 is neutral, so this is interpretation, not lexicography.
2“Amnon was sick with frustration over his sister Tamar, for she w…”+

2Amnon was sick with frustration over his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed implausible for him to do anything to her.

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Hebrew — tap a word ↓

lə·’am·nō·wn lə·hiṯ·ḥal·lō·wṯ way·yê·ṣer ba·‘ă·ḇūr ’ă·ḥō·ṯōw tā·mār kî hî ḇə·ṯū·lāh bə·‘ê·nê way·yip·pā·lê ’am·nō·wn la·‘ă·śō·wṯ mə·’ū·māh lāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-it-was-narrow to-Amnon, to-the-point-of-making-himself-ill, on-account-of Tamar his-sister; for a-virgin she, and-it-was-too-wonderful in-the-eyes-of Amnon to-do to-her anything.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וַיֵּ֨צֶר וַיֵּ֨צֶר (way·yê·ṣer, Qal of yâtsar, H3334, “to press, be straitened”) — BSB's “was sick with frustration” is a modern psychological label for a physical metaphor. Pulpit: “The Hebrew literally is, and it was narrow to Amnon.” K&D: “it became narrow (anxious) to Amnon, even to making himself ill.” The man is squeezed by his own appetite.
  • לְהִתְחַלּ֗וֹת לְהִתְחַלּ֗וֹת (lə·hiṯ·ḥal·lō·wṯ, Hitpael infinitive of châlâh, H2470) — reflexive: “to make oneself ill.” K&D is careful to distinguish this occurrence from v. 5: here “to become ill, in 2 Samuel 13:5 to pretend to be ill.” The same stem covers both the real wasting and the later fraud, which is precisely why the fraud was credible.
  • וַיִּפָּלֵא֙ וַיִּפָּלֵא֙ (way·yip·pā·lê, Nifal of pâlâʼ, H6381) — not “implausible” in a social sense but “it was too wonderful / too extraordinary.” This is the verb of things beyond human reach (Deut 30:11, Ps 139:6). BSB flattens a word of awe into a word of inconvenience. Gill: “what he despaired of, and what, if attained to, would be wonderful and amazing.”
  • בְתוּלָ֖ה בְתוּלָ֖ה (bᵉthûwlâh, H1330) — “a virgin (from her privacy),” Strong's own etymology. BSB's “for she was a virgin” states a fact; the Hebrew word already carries the reason she was unreachable. K&D: “The maidenly modesty of Tamar evidently raised an insuperable barrier.”
Word by word15 · parsed+
לְאַמְנ֜וֹןlə·’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidPreposition-lNounpropermasculine singular
לְהִתְחַלּ֗וֹתlə·hiṯ·ḥal·lō·wṯwas sickH2470
√ châlâh — properly, to be rubbed or wornPreposition-lVerbHitpaelInfinitive construct
וַיֵּ֨צֶרway·yê·ṣerwith frustrationH3334
√ yâtsar — to press (intransitive), iConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
yâtsar — to press, be straitened (Qal) The Hebrew idiom of distress is spatial: trouble is narrowness, deliverance is a wide place (Ps 4:1, Ps 18:19). Pulpit notes the loss: “To an Oriental a feeling of narrowness means distress, while in joy there is a sense of largeness and expansion.” Amnon's lust has already shrunk his world to one room — which is where the chapter will put him.
בַּֽעֲבוּר֙ba·‘ă·ḇūroverH5668
√ ʻâbûwr — properly, crossed, iPreposition-bNounmasculine singular
אֲחֹת֔וֹ’ă·ḥō·ṯōwhis sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructthird person masculine singular
תָּמָ֣רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
כִּ֥יforH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
kîy — for, because K&D argues the clause belongs forward, not back: “because she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible to him to do anything to her.”
הִ֑יאsheH1931
√ hûwʼ — he (she or it)Pronounthird person feminine singular
בְתוּלָ֖הḇə·ṯū·lāhwas a virginH1330
√ bᵉthûwlâh — a virgin (from her privacy)Nounfeminine singular
bᵉthûwlâh — a virgin The legal and social term, not a moral compliment. Verse 18 will say the king's bᵉthûlôṯ daughters wore a distinctive robe; the status that protected her is the status that will be publicly torn off her.
בְּעֵינֵ֣יbə·‘ê·nêand it seemedH5869
√ ʻayin — an eye (literally or figuratively)Preposition-bNouncdc
וַיִּפָּלֵא֙way·yip·pā·lêimplausibleH6381
√ pâlâʼ — properly, perhaps to separate, iConjunctive wawVerbNifalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
pâlâʼ — to be extraordinary, too wonderful (Nifal) The word that elsewhere names what God alone can do here names the one barrier standing between a prince and a crime — his sister's guarded virginity. The narrator's irony is exact: what was “too wonderful” for Amnon in v. 2 he accomplishes by force in v. 14, and the wonder collapses into nebalah.
אַמְנ֔וֹן’am·nō·wnfor [him]H550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
לַעֲשׂ֥וֹתla·‘ă·śō·wṯto doH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationPreposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
מְאֽוּמָה׃mə·’ū·māhanythingH3972
√ mᵉʼûwmâh — properly, a speck or point, iNounmasculine singular
לָ֖הּlāhto her
Prepositionthird person feminine singular
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The Hebrew literally is, and it was narrow to Amnon, even to becoming sick. To an Oriental a feeling of narrowness means distress, while in joy there is a sense of largeness and expansion.
The maidenly modesty of Tamar evidently raised an insuperable barrier to the gratification of his lusts.
Thus fleshly lusts are their own punishment, and not only war against the soul, but the body too, and are the rottenness of the bones.
3“Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, the son of David’s brother…”+

3Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah. Jonadab was a very shrewd man,

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Hebrew — tap a word ↓

ū·lə·’am·nō·wn rê·a‘ ū·šə·mōw yō·w·nā·ḏāḇ ben- ḏā·wiḏ ’ă·ḥî šim·‘āh wə·yō·w·nā·ḏāḇ mə·’ōḏ ḥā·ḵām ’îš

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-to-Amnon a-friend, and-his-name Jonadab son-of-Shimeah brother-of-David; and-Jonadab a-man wise exceedingly.

Where the English smooths the original

  • רֵ֗עַ רֵ֗עַ (rêaʻ, H7453) — Strong's: “an associate (more or less close).” BSB's “a friend” is warmer than the noun. Benson refuses the word outright: “Say rather an enemy.” Cambridge draws the moral: “The clever but unprincipled friend is more likely to provide means for gratifying evil passions than help in resisting them.”
  • חָכָ֖ם חָכָ֖ם (châkâm, H2450) — “wise,” the ordinary wisdom word of Proverbs. BSB's “shrewd” imports the verdict. Barnes is precise: “Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good sense, but here, and in Job 5:13, it means crafty.” Cambridge dissents: the word “pronounces no judgment on the way in which Jonadab misused his sagacity.” The translators must choose; the Hebrew does not.
  • מְאֹֽד׃ מְאֹֽד׃ (mᵉʼôd, H3966) — “vehemence, exceedingly.” The same adverb returns at v. 15 (“hated her exceedingly”) and v. 21 (“he was exceedingly angry”). BSB renders it three different ways; the Hebrew uses one word to measure the cleverness, the hatred, and the king's useless rage.
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וּלְאַמְנ֣וֹןū·lə·’am·nō·wnNow AmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidConjunctive waw, Preposition-lNounpropermasculine singular
רֵ֗עַrê·a‘had a friendH7453
√ rêaʻ — an associate (more or less close)Nounmasculine singular
rêaʻ — an associate The same noun Leviticus uses in “love your rêaʻ as yourself” (Lev 19:18). Here the neighbour-word is attached to a man who will engineer a rape.
וּשְׁמוֹ֙ū·šə·mōwnamedH8034
√ shêm — an appellation, as amark or memorial of individualityConjunctive wawNounmasculine singular constructthird person masculine singular
יֽוֹנָדָ֔בyō·w·nā·ḏāḇJonadabH3122
√ Yôwnâdâb — Jonadab, the name of an Israelite and of a RechabiteNounpropermasculine singular
בֶּן־ben-the sonH1121
√ bên — a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or condition, etcNounmasculine singular construct
דָוִ֑דḏā·wiḏof David’sH1732
√ Dâvid — David, the youngest son of JesseNounpropermasculine singular
אֲחִ֣י’ă·ḥîbrotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular construct
שִׁמְעָ֖הšim·‘āhShimeahH8093
√ Shimʻâh — Shimah, an IsraeliteNounpropermasculine singular
Shimʻâh — Shimah Ellicott, Barnes, Cambridge and K&D all note the variant: Shimeah is Shammah of 1 Sam 16:9, David's third brother. Jonadab is therefore David's nephew — the crime is engineered from inside the family.
וְי֣וֹנָדָ֔בwə·yō·w·nā·ḏāḇJonadabH3122
√ Yôwnâdâb — Jonadab, the name of an Israelite and of a RechabiteConjunctive wawNounpropermasculine singular
מְאֹֽד׃mə·’ōḏwas a veryH3966
√ mᵉʼôd — properly, vehemence, iAdverb
חָכָ֖םḥā·ḵāmshrewdH2450
√ châkâm — wise, (iAdjectivemasculine singular
châkâm — wise, skilful The book of Proverbs assumes wisdom is moral; this verse denies the assumption. Jonadab's chokmah is pure technique — accurate reading of a father's affection, a prince's appetite, and a sister's obedience — with no fear of the LORD in it. Barnes and Cambridge disagree only over whether the narrator has already condemned him; the story does the condemning in v. 5.
אִ֥ישׁ’îšmanH376
√ ʼîysh — a man as an individual or a male personNounmasculine singular
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Amnon had a friend — Say rather an enemy; for surely he proved himself to be such in a high degree, by the evil counsel he gave
Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good sense, but here, and in Job 5:13 , it means crafty.
This narrative is a strong warning against the danger of evil companions. The clever but unprincipled friend is more likely to provide means for gratifying evil passions than help in resisting them.
Cambridge elsewhere insists the word 'subtil' passes no judgment on Jonadab; the warning here is the commentator's application, not the Hebrew's verdict.
4“and he asked Amnon, “Why are you, the son of the king, so depres…”+

4and he asked Amnon, “Why are you, the son of the king, so depressed morning after morning? Won’t you tell me?” Amnon replied, “I am in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

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Hebrew — tap a word ↓

way·yō·mer lōw mad·dū·a‘ ’at·tāh ben- ham·me·leḵ kā·ḵāh dal bab·bō·qer bab·bō·qer hă·lō·w tag·gîḏ lî ’am·nō·wn ’eṯ- way·yō·mer lōw ’ă·nî ’ō·hêḇ tā·mār ’ā·ḥî ’aḇ·šā·lōm ’ă·ḥō·wṯ

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-he-said to-him: Why-so art-thou thin, O-son-of-the-king, in-the-morning in-the-morning? Wilt-thou-not tell to-me? And-Amnon said to-him: Tamar sister-of Absalom my-brother I am-loving.

Where the English smooths the original

  • דַּ֤ל דַּ֤ל (dal, H1800) — Strong's: “properly, dangling,” hence thin, weak, poor. BSB's “depressed” is a mood; the Hebrew is a body wasting. K&D: “dal, thin, spare, here equivalent to wasting away, looking miserable.”
  • בַּבֹּ֣קֶר בַּבֹּ֔קֶר בַּבֹּ֣קֶר בַּבֹּ֔קֶר (bab·bō·qer bab·bō·qer, H1242 doubled) — literally “in the morning, in the morning.” BSB's “morning after morning” keeps the sense but loses the flat repetition. K&D: “‘The morning’ is mentioned because sick persons look worst in the morning.” Poole adds the nights: “in the night he was pestered with tormenting thoughts and passions.”
  • אָחִ֖י אַבְשָׁלֹ֥ם אֲח֛וֹת אֲח֛וֹתאָחִ֖י (H269 / H251) — Amnon's own word order is “Tamar, sister of Absalom my brother.” He calls Absalom brother and refuses to call Tamar sister. Gill catches it: “he does not call her his sister, but Absalom's sister, to lessen his sin of unlawful love to her.” BSB's English cannot show the evasion as starkly as the Hebrew construct chain does.
  • אֹהֵֽב׃ אֹהֵֽב׃ (ʼō·hêḇ, Qal participle of ʼâhab) — a participle, not a finite verb: “I am loving.” BSB's “I am in love with” is right in force but the participle presents it as a settled, continuing state — which makes the reversal at v. 15 the sharper.
Word by word23 · parsed+
וַיֹּ֣אמֶרway·yō·merand he askedH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
ל֗וֹlōw[Amnon]
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
מַדּ֣וּעַmad·dū·a‘WhyH4069
√ maddûwaʻ — what (is) known?Interrogative
אַ֠תָּה’at·tāhare youH859
√ ʼattâh — thou and thee, or (plural) ye and youPronounsecond person masculine singular
בֶּן־ben-the sonH1121
√ bên — a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or condition, etcNounmasculine singular construct
bên — son Jonadab's flattery begins here: not “Amnon” but “son of the king.” Benson quotes Delaney on the method — that the king's son “might give a loose to his desires, and despise the restraint of ordinary men.”
הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ham·me·leḵof the kingH4428
√ melek — a kingArticleNounmasculine singular
כָּ֣כָהkā·ḵāhsoH3602
√ kâkâh — just so, referring to the previous or following contextAdverb
דַּ֤לdaldepressedH1800
√ dal — properly, dangling, iAdjectivemasculine singular
dal — thin, dangling, weak The adjective normally describes the poor (Ex 23:3, Prov 19:17) — those with nothing. Applied to the crown prince it is bitterly exact: the heir to Israel is wasting to nothing over a thing he cannot buy or command.
בַּבֹּ֣קֶרbab·bō·qermorningH1242
√ bôqer — properly, dawn (as the break of day)Preposition-b, ArticleNounmasculine singular
בַּבֹּ֔קֶרbab·bō·qerafter morningH1242
√ bôqer — properly, dawn (as the break of day)Preposition-b, ArticleNounmasculine singular
הֲל֖וֹאhă·lō·wWon’tH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absAdverbNegative particle
תַּגִּ֣ידtag·gîḏyou tellH5046
√ nâgad — properly, to front, iVerbHifilImperfectsecond person masculine singular
nâgad — to declare, tell (Hifil) Causative: make it front, put it plainly. The confession Jonadab extracts is the hinge of the plot.
לִ֑יme
Prepositionfirst person common singular
אַמְנ֔וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
וַיֹּ֤אמֶרway·yō·merrepliedH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
לוֹ֙lōw
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
אֲנִ֥י’ă·nîI amH589
√ ʼănîy — IPronounfirst person common singular
אֹהֵֽב׃’ō·hêḇin loveH157
√ ʼâhab — to have affection for (sexually or otherwise)VerbQalParticiplemasculine singular
ʼâhab — to love (Qal participle) Amnon names his condition with the covenant word. The narrator will keep the word until v. 15 and then measure it: the hatred was greater than “the love (ʼahăbâh, H160) he had loved her.” The unit is therefore a definition by subtraction — whatever this was, it was not ʼahăbâh.
תָּמָ֗רtā·mārwith TamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
אָחִ֖י’ā·ḥîmy brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructfirst person common singular
אַבְשָׁלֹ֥ם’aḇ·šā·lōmAbsalom’sH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
אֲח֛וֹת’ă·ḥō·wṯsisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular construct
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he does not call her his sister, but Absalom's sister, to lessen his sin of unlawful love to her
for whereas in the day he had many diversions and refreshments, in the night he was pestered with tormenting thoughts and passions
There was probably a gathering of friends every morning at the young prince's house, and his cousin, attending this levee, noticed Amnon's melancholy, and, having forced a confession from him, is unscrupulous enough to suggest a plan that would make Tamar her brother's victim.
5“Jonadab told him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend you are ill.…”+

5Jonadab told him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend you are ill. When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare it in my sight so I may watch her and eat it from her hand.’”

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yə·hō·w·nā·ḏāḇ way·yō·mer lōw šə·ḵaḇ ‘al- miš·kā·ḇə·ḵā wə·hiṯ·ḥāl ’ā·ḇî·ḵā ū·ḇā lir·’ō·w·ṯe·ḵā wə·’ā·mar·tā ’ê·lāw nā ’ă·ḥō·w·ṯî ṯā·mār tā·ḇō wə·ṯaḇ·rê·nî le·ḥem wə·‘ā·śə·ṯāh hab·bir·yāh lə·‘ê·nay ’eṯ- lə·ma·‘an ’ă·šer ’er·’eh wə·’ā·ḵal·tî mî·yā·ḏāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Jonadab said to-him: Lie-down upon thy-bed and-make-thyself-ill; and-thy-father shall-come to-see-thee, and-thou-shalt-say to-him: let-come-I-pray Tamar my-sister and-let-her-feed-me bread, and-let-her-make before-my-eyes the-food, so-that I-may-see and-I-shall-eat from-her-hand.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וְהִתְחָ֑ל וְהִתְחָ֑ל (wə·hiṯ·ḥāl, Hitpael imperative of châlâh, H2470) — “make thyself ill.” BSB's “pretend you are ill” is the right sense but hides that the verb is identical to v. 2's real wasting. Ellicott: “Rather, Feign thyself sick… Yet the miserable condition to which Amnon was brought by the former would give colour and plausibility to the latter.” The lie works because it is half true.
  • אֲחוֹתִ֜י אֲחוֹתִ֜י (ʼă·ḥō·w·ṯî, “my sister”) — the word Amnon would not say in v. 4 is now scripted for him. Gill: “here he is directed to call her not Absalom's sister, but his own, the more to cover his ill design upon her.” BSB translates it flatly; the Hebrew has Jonadab hand Amnon the word as a tool.
  • לְעֵינַי֙ לְעֵינַי֙ (lə·‘ê·nay, from ʻayin, H5869) — “to/before my eyes.” BSB's “in my sight” is accurate, but the eye-word governs this whole scene (v. 2 “in the eyes of Amnon,” v. 5, v. 6, v. 8). The plan is built around watching her. Poole: “pretending that his stomach was so nice that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed.”
  • מִיָּדָֽהּ׃ מִיָּדָֽהּ׃ (mî·yā·ḏāh, yâd H3027) — “from her hand.” Strong's notes the open hand indicates power, means, direction. BSB keeps the idiom, but the repetition (vv. 5, 6, 10) is the tell: what Amnon wants delivered by hand is not bread.
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יְה֣וֹנָדָ֔בyə·hō·w·nā·ḏāḇJonadabH3082
√ Yᵉhôwnâdâb — Jehonadab, the name of an Israelite and of an ArabNounpropermasculine singular
וַיֹּ֤אמֶרway·yō·mertoldH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
לוֹ֙lōwhim
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
שְׁכַ֥בšə·ḵaḇLie downH7901
√ shâkab — to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)VerbQalImperativemasculine singular
עַל־‘al-onH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition
מִשְׁכָּבְךָ֖miš·kā·ḇə·ḵāyour bedH4904
√ mishkâb — a bed (figuratively, a bier)Nounmasculine singular constructsecond person masculine singular
וְהִתְחָ֑לwə·hiṯ·ḥāland pretend you are illH2470
√ châlâh — properly, to be rubbed or wornConjunctive wawVerbHitpaelImperativemasculine singular
châlâh — to be worn, to be sick (Hitpael imperative) The reflexive stem is the grammar of the whole plot: a self-made sickness used to conscript a father's compassion. K&D calls the advice “very craftily devised, as Amnon's wretched appearance would favour his pretence.” The Geneva glossator draws the general law: “there is no enterprise so wicked that it cannot be encouraged to further wickedness.”
אָבִ֣יךָ’ā·ḇî·ḵāWhen your fatherH1
√ ʼâb — father, in a literal and immediate, or figurative and remote applicationNounmasculine singular constructsecond person masculine singular
וּבָ֧אū·ḇācomesH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectthird person masculine singular
לִרְאוֹתֶ֗ךָlir·’ō·w·ṯe·ḵāto see youH7200
√ râʼâh — to see, literally or figuratively (in numerous applications, direct and implied, transitive, intransitive and causative)Preposition-lVerbQalInfinitive constructsecond person masculine singular
râʼâh — to see (Qal infinitive) David will “come to see” his sick son; Amnon wants to “see” his sister cook. The same root serves a father's love and a son's appetite in one sentence.
וְאָמַרְתָּ֣wə·’ā·mar·tāsayH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectsecond person masculine singular
אֵלָ֡יו’ê·lāwto himH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPrepositionthird person masculine singular
נָא֩PleaseH4994
√ nâʼ — 'I pray', 'now', or 'then'Interjection
nâʼ — I pray, now The particle of polite entreaty, used here to make an outrage sound like a convalescent's whim.
אֲחוֹתִ֜י’ă·ḥō·w·ṯîlet my sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructfirst person common singular
תָמָ֨רṯā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
תָּ֣בֹאtā·ḇōcomeH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)VerbQalImperfectthird person feminine singular
וְתַבְרֵ֣נִיwə·ṯaḇ·rê·nîand give me somethingH1262
√ bârâh — to selectConjunctive wawVerbHifilConjunctive imperfectthird person feminine singularfirst person common singular
bârâh — to select, to give food A genuinely rare verb (six verses in the whole Hebrew Bible). It belongs to food given to the grieving or the failing — David refusing bread after Abner's death (2 Sam 3:35), and, most terribly, Lamentations 4:10. Here it is the pretext of a rapist.
לֶ֗חֶםle·ḥemto eatH3899
√ lechem — food (for man or beast), especially bread, or grain (for making it)Nounmasculine singular
וְעָשְׂתָ֤הwə·‘ā·śə·ṯāhLet her prepareH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationConjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectthird person feminine singular
הַבִּרְיָ֔הhab·bir·yāh[it]H1279
√ biryâh — foodArticleNounfeminine singular
לְעֵינַי֙lə·‘ê·nayin my sightH5869
√ ʻayin — an eye (literally or figuratively)Preposition-lNouncdcfirst person common singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
לְמַ֙עַן֙lə·ma·‘ansoH4616
√ maʻan — properly, heed, iConjunction
אֲשֶׁ֣ר’ă·šerH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
אֶרְאֶ֔ה’er·’ehI may watch herH7200
√ râʼâh — to see, literally or figuratively (in numerous applications, direct and implied, transitive, intransitive and causative)VerbQalImperfectfirst person common singular
וְאָכַלְתִּ֖יwə·’ā·ḵal·tîand eat itH398
√ ʼâkal — to eat (literally or figuratively)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectfirst person common singular
מִיָּדָֽהּ׃mî·yā·ḏāhfrom her handH3027
√ yâd — a hand (the open one (indicating power, means, direction, etcPreposition-mNounfeminine singular constructthird person feminine singular
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That was the real pining of ungoverned and ungratified passion; this was a crafty feigning of sickness.
Here we see that there is no enterprise so wicked that it cannot be encouraged to further wickedness.
Ah! false, treacherous, and base flatterer! that could thus tempt thy prince to so vile a crime! More than the poison of asps is under the lips of such friends and counsellors.
Benson's rhetoric is his own; the narrator never editorialises about Jonadab here, reserving judgment until 13:32-35.
6“So Amnon lay down and feigned illness. When the king came to see…”+

6So Amnon lay down and feigned illness. When the king came to see him, Amnon said, “Please let my sister Tamar come and make a couple of cakes in my sight, so that I may eat from her hand.”

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’am·nō·wn way·yiš·kaḇ way·yiṯ·ḥāl ham·me·leḵ way·yā·ḇō lir·’ō·ṯōw ’am·nō·wn way·yō·mer ’el- ham·me·leḵ nā ’ă·ḥō·ṯî ū·ṯə·lab·bêḇ tā·mār tā·ḇō·w- šə·tê lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯ lə·‘ê·nay wə·’eḇ·reh mî·yā·ḏāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Amnon lay-down and-made-himself-ill; and-the-king came to-see-him, and-Amnon said unto the-king: let-come-I-pray Tamar my-sister and-let-her-make-heart-cakes before-my-eyes, two of-them, and-I-shall-be-fed from-her-hand.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וּתְלַבֵּ֤ב וּתְלַבֵּ֤ב (ū·ṯə·lab·bêḇ, Piel of lâbab, H3823) — BSB leaves it as three dots and folds it into “make a couple of cakes.” The verb is denominative from lêbâb, heart. K&D: “lâbab is a denom. from lebiboth, to make or bake heart-cakes.” Strong's also records the other sense of the root: “(in a good sense) transport (with love), or (in a bad sense) stultify.” The pun is in the Hebrew and is lost in every English version.
  • לְבִב֔וֹת לְבִב֔וֹת (lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯ, H3834) — “heart-cakes.” BSB's “cakes” is bare. Barnes: “The words here used occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful… according to some, it was, from its etymology, shaped like a heart.” Gill offers both readings, “either from the form of them… or from the effect of them, comforting and refreshing the heart.”
  • אֲחֹתִ֗י אֲחֹתִ֗י (“my sister”) — Amnon uses Jonadab's word to his father's face. JFB names the tactic: “a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father.” The English keeps the word; only the plot shows it is a lie in the mouth.
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אַמְנ֖וֹן’am·nō·wnSo AmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיִּשְׁכַּ֥בway·yiš·kaḇlay downH7901
√ shâkab — to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
וַיִּתְחָ֑לway·yiṯ·ḥāland feigned illnessH2470
√ châlâh — properly, to be rubbed or wornConjunctive wawVerbHitpaelConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
châlâh — to make oneself ill (Hitpael) Now acted out. The same stem as v. 5's command: the counsel has become a performance, and the king is its audience.
הַמֶּ֜לֶךְham·me·leḵWhen the kingH4428
√ melek — a kingArticleNounmasculine singular
melek — a king The text says “the king” came, not “his father.” From this verse the narrator uses the royal title where we expect the family one — and a king who is only a father is exactly the failure v. 21 will record.
וַיָּבֹ֨אway·yā·ḇōcameH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
לִרְאֹת֗וֹlir·’ō·ṯōwto see himH7200
√ râʼâh — to see, literally or figuratively (in numerous applications, direct and implied, transitive, intransitive and causative)Preposition-lVerbQalInfinitive constructthird person masculine singular
אַמְנ֤וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיֹּ֨אמֶרway·yō·mersaidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אֶל־’el-H413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPreposition
הַמֶּ֙לֶךְ֙ham·me·leḵH4428
√ melek — a kingArticleNounmasculine singular
נָ֞אPleaseH4994
√ nâʼ — 'I pray', 'now', or 'then'Interjection
אֲחֹתִ֗י’ă·ḥō·ṯîlet my sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructfirst person common singular
וּתְלַבֵּ֤בū·ṯə·lab·bêḇ. . .H3823
√ lâbab — (in a good sense) transport (with love), or (in a bad sense) stultifyConjunctive wawVerbPielConjunctive imperfectthird person feminine singular
lâbab — to make heart-cakes / to ravish the heart (Piel) The Song of Songs uses this same root for a lover who has “ravished my heart” (Song 4:9) — the one other place a sister is addressed with it. Here the root is degraded into kitchen work, and the man who asked to be heartened is the one who will act without a heart. The Hebrew makes the request and the crime rhyme; English cannot.
תָּמָ֣רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
תָּֽבוֹא־tā·ḇō·w-comeH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)VerbQalImperfectthird person feminine singular
שְׁתֵּ֣יšə·têand make a coupleH8147
√ shᵉnayim — twoNumberfeminine dual construct
לְבִב֔וֹתlə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯof cakesH3834
√ lâbîybâh — a cake (either as fried or turned)Nounfeminine plural
לְעֵינַי֙lə·‘ê·nayin my sightH5869
√ ʻayin — an eye (literally or figuratively)Preposition-lNouncdcfirst person common singular
וְאֶבְרֶ֖הwə·’eḇ·rehso that I may eatH1262
√ bârâh — to selectConjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive imperfect Cohortative if contextualfirst person common singular
מִיָּדָֽהּ׃mî·yā·ḏāhfrom her handH3027
√ yâd — a hand (the open one (indicating power, means, direction, etcPreposition-mNounfeminine singular constructthird person feminine singular
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To the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as "his sister," a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father
is a heart-strengthening kind of pastry, a kind of pancake, which could be very quickly made.
heart cakes, as the word may be thought to signify; called so either from the form of them, such as We have with us, or from the effect of them, comforting and refreshing the heart
7“Then David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Please go to the h…”+

7Then David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Please go to the house of Amnon your brother and prepare a meal for him.”

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dā·wiḏ way·yiš·laḥ ’el- tā·mār hab·bay·ṯāh lê·mōr nā lə·ḵî bêṯ ’am·nō·wn ’ā·ḥîḵ wa·‘ă·śî- hab·bir·yāh lōw

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-David sent unto Tamar, to-the-house, saying: Go-I-pray to-the-house-of Amnon thy-brother, and-make for-him the-food.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וַיִּשְׁלַ֥ח וַיִּשְׁלַ֥ח (way·yiš·laḥ, Qal of shâlach, H7971) — “and he sent.” BSB's “sent word to” softens it. The bare verb makes David the agent who dispatches his daughter; the identical root returns at v. 16 (Piel, lə·šal·lə·ḥê·nî, “to send me away”) and v. 17 (“send this one out”). Tamar is sent in by her father and sent out by her brother with the same verb.
  • הַבַּ֣יְתָה הַבַּ֣יְתָה (hab·bay·ṯāh, H1004 with directive -âh) — “to the house(ward).” BSB's “at the palace” guesses at a location; Ellicott and Cambridge both read it as the women's quarters: “Into the house: the inner part of the palace, where the women's apartments were.” The word is a direction, not an address.
  • אָחִ֔יךְ אָחִ֔יךְ (ʼā·ḥîḵ, “thy brother”) — David repeats the word that is doing all the deceiving. The king's own sentence contains the reason it never occurred to him to refuse. Poole calls his blindness providential: God “blinded David's mind, that he might bring upon him the designed and threatened judgments.”
  • נָ֗א לְכִ֣י לְכִ֣י (lə·ḵî, feminine singular imperative of hâlak) with נָ֗א — “go, I pray.” It is a command softened by the courtesy particle, from a king to his daughter. BSB's “Please go” is right, and the politeness is unbearable: the last kindness Tamar receives in this chapter is the nâʼ that sends her to be raped.
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דָּוִ֛דdā·wiḏThen DavidH1732
√ Dâvid — David, the youngest son of JesseNounpropermasculine singular
וַיִּשְׁלַ֥חway·yiš·laḥsentH7971
√ shâlach — to send away, for, or out (in a great variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
shâlach — to send away, for, or out The governing verb of Tamar's whole ordeal. David sends her (v. 7); Amnon orders her sent out (v. 17); she names the sending-away as the greater evil (v. 16). Her body is moved through the chapter by other people's imperatives, and the Hebrew uses one root to say so.
אֶל־’el-word toH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPreposition
תָּמָ֖רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
הַבַּ֣יְתָהhab·bay·ṯāhat the palaceH1004
√ bayith — a house (in the greatest variation of applications, especially family, etcArticleNounmasculine singularthird person feminine singular
לֵאמֹ֑רlê·mōr. . .H559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Preposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
נָ֗אPleaseH4994
√ nâʼ — 'I pray', 'now', or 'then'Interjection
לְכִ֣יlə·ḵîgoH1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)VerbQalImperativefeminine singular
hâlak — to walk, go (Qal imperative, fem. sg.) Obedience is commanded in the feminine singular; the same root closes her story in v. 19, where she “goes, going and crying.” She walks in at her father's word and walks out shrieking.
בֵּ֚יתbêṯto the houseH1004
√ bayith — a house (in the greatest variation of applications, especially family, etcNounmasculine singular construct
אַמְנ֣וֹן’am·nō·wnof AmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
אָחִ֔יךְ’ā·ḥîḵyour brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructsecond person feminine singular
וַעֲשִׂי־wa·‘ă·śî-and prepareH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationConjunctive wawVerbQalImperativefeminine singular
ʻâsâh — to do or make (Qal imperative, fem. sg.) “Prepare.” The same root will be Tamar's own protest word in v. 12: “such a thing is not done in Israel” — and Amnon's indictment in v. 16: “the evil you have done to me.”
הַבִּרְיָֽה׃hab·bir·yāha mealH1279
√ biryâh — foodArticleNounfeminine singular
ל֖וֹlōwfor him
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
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It is strange that so wise and sagacious a person as David did not see through so vain a pretence; but that must be ascribed partly to the instincts of nature, which generally preserve near relations from such monstrous actions; and partly to God’s providence, which blinded David’s mind, that he might bring upon him the designed and threatened judgments.
Poole's appeal to providence explains David's blindness theologically; the text itself gives no motive for the king's compliance, so this is inference.
Into the house : the inner part of the palace, where the women’s apartments were.
who also had a separate house and equipage, being the king's son, and his eldest son
8“So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying d…”+

8So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked them.

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tā·mār wat·tê·leḵ bêṯ ’ā·ḥî·hā ’am·nō·wn wə·hū šō·ḵêḇ wat·tiq·qaḥ ’eṯ- hab·bā·ṣêq wat·tå̄·lōš wat·tə·lab·bêḇ lə·‘ê·nāw wat·tə·ḇaš·šêl ’eṯ- hal·lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯ

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Tamar went to-the-house-of Amnon her-brother, and-he lying-down; and-she-took the-dough and-she-kneaded and-she-made-heart-cakes before-his-eyes, and-she-boiled the-heart-cakes.

Where the English smooths the original

  • הַבָּצֵ֤ק הַבָּצֵ֤ק (hab·bā·ṣêq, H1217) — “the dough,” Strong's: “dough (as swelling by fermentation).” BSB's “some dough” is close; older versions read “flour,” which Cambridge corrects flatly: “flour] The dough.” The definite article matters: it is the household's dough, ordinary domestic matter pressed into a trap.
  • וַתְּלַבֵּ֣ב וַתְּלַבֵּ֣ב (wat·tə·lab·bêḇ, Piel of lâbab) — “and she made heart-cakes.” BSB says “made cakes.” The heart-root now has Tamar as its subject: she is hearting for the brother who is about to be heartless. The verse is a chain of four consecutive feminine verbs — took, kneaded, hearted, boiled — an inventory of innocent service.
  • וַתְּבַשֵּׁ֖ל וַתְּבַשֵּׁ֖ל (wat·tə·ḇaš·šêl, Piel of bâshal, H1310) — Strong's: “properly, to boil up.” BSB's “baked them” chooses one of the two possible cooking methods; Gill reports the alternative tradition, “fried them in a frying pan, in oil.” The verb itself does not decide.
  • לְעֵינָ֔יו לְעֵינָ֔יו — “before his eyes.” The third occurrence of the eye-phrase in four verses (vv. 5, 6, 8). BSB varies the English (“in my sight,” “in his sight”); the Hebrew keeps one phrase, and it is the phrase Amnon built the whole lie around.
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תָּמָ֗רtā·mārSo TamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
וַתֵּ֣לֶךְwat·tê·leḵwentH1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
hâlak — to go (Qal consecutive imperfect, 3fs) She goes, as commanded. Gill weighs her state of mind: “in obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast.” The narrator supplies no hesitation at all, which is itself the point — there was no reason for any.
בֵּ֛יתbêṯto the houseH1004
√ bayith — a house (in the greatest variation of applications, especially family, etcNounmasculine singular construct
אָחִ֖יהָ’ā·ḥî·hāof her brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
אַמְנ֥וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וְה֣וּאwə·hū[who]H1931
√ hûwʼ — he (she or it)Conjunctive wawPronounthird person masculine singular
שֹׁכֵ֑בšō·ḵêḇwas lying downH7901
√ shâkab — to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)VerbQalParticiplemasculine singular
shâkab — to lie down (Qal participle) A circumstantial clause: “and he was lying down.” The participle holds him in that posture for four verses, and the same root will name the crime in v. 14 — “and he lay with her.” The feigned sickbed and the scene of the rape are the same furniture.
וַתִּקַּ֨חwat·tiq·qaḥShe tookH3947
√ lâqach — to take (in the widest variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
הַבָּצֵ֤קhab·bā·ṣêqsome doughH1217
√ bâtsêq — dough (as swelling by fermentation)ArticleNounmasculine singular
וַתָּלוֹשׁwat·tå̄·lōškneaded [it]H3888
√ lûwsh — to kneadConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
וַתְּלַבֵּ֣בwat·tə·lab·bêḇmade cakesH3823
√ lâbab — (in a good sense) transport (with love), or (in a bad sense) stultifyConjunctive wawVerbPielConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
lâbab — to make heart-cakes (Piel) The verb Amnon asked for in v. 6 is now performed. Everything Amnon requested has been granted: the father, the sister, the cooking, the watching. Nothing remains between him and the act but the servants, whom he removes in the next verse.
לְעֵינָ֔יוlə·‘ê·nāwin his sightH5869
√ ʻayin — an eye (literally or figuratively)Preposition-lNouncdcthird person masculine singular
וַתְּבַשֵּׁ֖לwat·tə·ḇaš·šêland bakedH1310
√ bâshal — properly, to boil upConjunctive wawVerbPielConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
הַלְּבִבֽוֹת׃hal·lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯthemH3834
√ lâbîybâh — a cake (either as fried or turned)ArticleNounfeminine plural
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In obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast, having no suspicion of any design upon her chastity
Some particular kind of cake or pudding is meant 2 Samuel 13:8 , called a לביבה lābı̂ybâh; according to some, it was, from its etymology, shaped like a heart.
Tamar, flattered by the invitation, lost no time in rendering the required service in the house of her sick brother.
JFB's 'flattered' has no warrant in the Hebrew, which records only that she went; the adjective quietly assigns her a motive the text withholds.
9“Then she brought the pan and set it down before him, but he refu…”+

9Then she brought the pan and set it down before him, but he refused to eat. “Send everyone away!” said Amnon. And everyone went out.

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wat·tiq·qaḥ ’eṯ- ham·maś·rêṯ wat·ti·ṣōq lə·p̄ā·nāw way·mā·’ên le·’ĕ·ḵō·wl ḵāl ’îš mê·‘ā·lay hō·w·ṣî·’ū way·yō·mer ’am·nō·wn ḵāl ’îš mê·‘ā·lāw way·yê·ṣə·’ū

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-she-took the-pan and-she-poured-out before-him, and-he-refused to-eat. And-Amnon said: Bring-out every man from-upon-me! And-they-went-out every man from-upon-him.

Where the English smooths the original

  • הַמַּשְׂרֵת֙ הַמַּשְׂרֵת֙ (ham·maś·rêṯ, H4958) — BSB says “the pan,” but K&D flags it: “The ἁπ. λεγ. masreth signifies a frying-pan or sauce-pan, according to the ancient versions. The etymology is uncertain.” Pulpit thinks the Syriac may be right that the word means not the vessel but “the delicacy Tamar had been cooking.” The English is a guess wearing a definite article.
  • וַתִּצֹ֣ק וַתִּצֹ֣ק (wat·ti·ṣōq, Qal of yâtsaq, H3332) — “and she poured out.” BSB's “set it down” makes a serving gesture out of a pouring one. K&D: “she took the pan and shook out (what she had prepared) before him.” Poole is plainer: “out of the frying-pan into the dish.”
  • וַיְמָאֵ֖ן וַיְמָאֵ֖ן (way·mā·’ên, Piel of mâʼên, H3985) — an intensive stem: he flatly refused. BSB's “but he refused to eat” is correct and colourless. Gill supplies the reason the verb hides: “for that was not what he wanted.”
  • הוֹצִ֤יאוּ הוֹצִ֤יאוּ (hō·w·ṣî·’ū, Hifil imperative plural of yâtsâʼ, H3318) — causative: “cause every man to go out from upon me.” BSB's “Send everyone away!” is idiomatic, but the same Hifil returns in v. 18 with Tamar as its object: the servant “brought her out.” The verb that clears the room of witnesses is the verb that throws her into the street.
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וַתִּקַּ֤חwat·tiq·qaḥThen she broughtH3947
√ lâqach — to take (in the widest variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
הַמַּשְׂרֵת֙ham·maś·rêṯthe panH4958
√ masrêth — a panArticleNounfeminine singular
masrêth — a pan A hapax legomenon; the ancient versions guess, and so do we.
וַתִּצֹ֣קwat·ti·ṣōqand set it downH3332
√ yâtsaq — properly, to pour out (transitive or intransitive)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
לְפָנָ֔יוlə·p̄ā·nāwbefore himH6440
√ pânîym — the face (as the part that turns)Preposition-lNouncommon plural constructthird person masculine singular
וַיְמָאֵ֖ןway·mā·’ênbut he refusedH3985
√ mâʼên — to refuseConjunctive wawVerbPielConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
mâʼên — to refuse (Piel) The one thing Amnon asked for is the one thing he now rejects. Ellicott notes how well the whim fits the disguise: this “seemed natural enough in a whimsical invalid, and for the same reason his next requirement… awakened no suspicion in the mind of Tamar.” The refusal is the hinge on which the fraud turns into the assault.
לֶאֱכ֑וֹלle·’ĕ·ḵō·wlto eatH398
√ ʼâkal — to eat (literally or figuratively)Preposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
כָל־ḵālSend everyoneH3605
√ kôl — properly, the wholeNounmasculine singular construct
kôl — the whole, every “Every man” — the phrase repeats in the same verse for the going out. Nobody is left.
אִישׁ֙’îš. . .H376
√ ʼîysh — a man as an individual or a male personNounmasculine singular
מֵֽעָלַ֔יmê·‘ā·lay. . .H5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition-mfirst person common singular
הוֹצִ֤יאוּhō·w·ṣî·’ūawayH3318
√ yâtsâʼ — to go (causatively, bring) out, in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively, direct and proximVerbHifilImperativemasculine plural
yâtsâʼ — to go out (Hifil imperative) The removal of witnesses. K&D later observes the legal consequence at v. 16: Tamar could not call for help as Deuteronomy 22:27 requires, precisely because this command had emptied the house. The crime is premeditated in its evidence as well as its act.
וַיֹּ֣אמֶרway·yō·mersaidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אַמְנ֗וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
כָל־ḵālAnd everyoneH3605
√ kôl — properly, the wholeNounmasculine singular construct
אִ֖ישׁ’îš. . .H376
√ ʼîysh — a man as an individual or a male personNounmasculine singular
מֵעָלָֽיו׃mê·‘ā·lāw. . .H5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition-mthird person masculine singular
וַיֵּצְא֥וּway·yê·ṣə·’ūwent outH3318
√ yâtsâʼ — to go (causatively, bring) out, in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively, direct and proximConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine plural
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This also seemed natural enough in a whimsical invalid, and for the same reason his next requirement, “Have out all men from me,” awakened no suspicion in the mind of Tamar.
For the wicked are ashamed to do that before men, which they are not afraid to commit in the sight of God.
Here the Syriac is probably right in understanding, not a pan, but the delicacy Tamar had been cooking.
10“Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, so t…”+

10Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, so that I may eat it from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes she had made and went to her brother Amnon’s bedroom.

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’am·nō·wn way·yō·mer ’el- tā·mār hā·ḇî·’î hab·bir·yāh ha·ḥe·ḏer wə·’eḇ·reh mî·yā·ḏêḵ tā·mār ’eṯ- wat·tiq·qaḥ hal·lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯ ’ă·šer ‘ā·śā·ṯāh wat·tā·ḇê ’ā·ḥî·hā lə·’am·nō·wn he·ḥā·ḏə·rāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Amnon said unto Tamar: Bring the-food into-the-inner-room, and-I-shall-be-fed from-thy-hand. And-Tamar took the-heart-cakes which she-had-made and-she-brought to-Amnon her-brother, to-the-inner-room.

Where the English smooths the original

  • הַחֶ֔דֶר הַחֶ֔דֶר (ha·ḥe·ḏer, H2315) — Strong's: “an apartment (usually literal),” the inner chamber. BSB's “the bedroom” is an interpretation, correct in effect but supplying furniture the noun does not name. Poole weighs whether it is the room he lay in or “another secret chamber”; Benson thinks Amnon “retired into his chamber, desiring her to go along with him.” The word means only further in.
  • מִיָּדֵ֑ךְ מִיָּדֵ֑ךְ (mî·yā·ḏêḵ, “from thy hand”) — the third time (vv. 5, 6, 10) and the first time spoken to her face. In vv. 5 and 6 it was “from her hand,” said behind her back to a schemer and a father. BSB renders all three identically and so hides the moment the request becomes direct.
  • וַתָּבֵ֛א וַתָּבֵ֛א (wat·tā·ḇê, Hifil of bôwʼ, H935) — causative, “and she brought [it] in.” BSB's “and went to her brother Amnon's bedroom” turns a transitive act of service into mere movement. She is still, to the last clause, doing what she was sent to do.
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אַמְנ֜וֹן’am·nō·wnThen AmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיֹּ֨אמֶרway·yō·mersaidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אֶל־’el-toH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPreposition
תָּמָ֗רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
הָבִ֤יאִיhā·ḇî·’îBringH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)VerbHifilImperativefeminine singular
bôwʼ — to come or go (Hifil imperative, fem. sg.) “Bring.” The last command Tamar obeys, and the last verse in which she is described doing anything but suffering.
הַבִּרְיָה֙hab·bir·yāhthe foodH1279
√ biryâh — foodArticleNounfeminine singular
הַחֶ֔דֶרha·ḥe·ḏerinto the bedroomH2315
√ cheder — an apartment (usually literal)ArticleNounmasculine singular
cheder — an inner apartment The chamber-word of Scripture's most private acts: where Joseph wept (Gen 43:30), where the bridegroom waits (Joel 2:16), and where the prophet tells the people to hide until the wrath passes (Isa 26:20). Here it is the room where there is no one to hear. The repetition at the end of the verse (he·ḥā·ḏə·rāh, with directive ending) closes the door on the sentence itself.
וְאֶבְרֶ֖הwə·’eḇ·rehso that I may eat itH1262
√ bârâh — to selectConjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive imperfect Cohortative if contextualfirst person common singular
bârâh — to feed, to give food The rare verb again (six verses in the Hebrew Bible), still in the mouth of the pretext. Amnon repeats his cover story one clause before he abandons it.
מִיָּדֵ֑ךְmî·yā·ḏêḵfrom your handH3027
√ yâd — a hand (the open one (indicating power, means, direction, etcPreposition-mNounfeminine singular constructsecond person feminine singular
תָּמָ֗רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
וַתִּקַּ֣חwat·tiq·qaḥtookH3947
√ lâqach — to take (in the widest variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
הַלְּבִבוֹת֙hal·lə·ḇi·ḇō·wṯthe cakesH3834
√ lâbîybâh — a cake (either as fried or turned)ArticleNounfeminine plural
אֲשֶׁ֣ר’ă·šerH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
עָשָׂ֔תָה‘ā·śā·ṯāhshe had madeH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationVerbQalPerfectthird person feminine singular
וַתָּבֵ֛אwat·tā·ḇêand wentH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbHifilConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אָחִ֖יהָ’ā·ḥî·hāto her brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
ʼâch — a brother The narrator, not Amnon, supplies the word here: she brought them “to Amnon her brother.” It is the writer's own quiet testimony about what she thought she was doing.
לְאַמְנ֥וֹןlə·’am·nō·wnAmnon’sH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidPreposition-lNounpropermasculine singular
הֶחָֽדְרָה׃he·ḥā·ḏə·rāhbedroomH2315
√ cheder — an apartment (usually literal)ArticleNounmasculine singularthird person feminine singular
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It is probable that when Tamar first came, Amnon had received her in an outward room, but that, pretending now to be fatigued, he retired into his chamber
being quite innocent herself, and having no suspicion of a brother having any ill design upon her, she made no scruple of going into an inner chamber alone with him.
first sendeth all out of that room, and then riseth from his couch, and, upon some pretence, goes into another secret chamber, where he might have the better opportunity for his intended wickedness.
Poole is reconstructing the floor plan; the Hebrew names only 'the inner room' and does not say how many chambers there were.
11“And when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her…”+

11And when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her and said, “Come lie with me, my sister!”

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wat·tag·gêš ’ê·lāw le·’ĕ·ḵōl way·ya·ḥă·zeq- bāh way·yō·mer lāh bō·w·’î šiḵ·ḇî ‘im·mî ’ă·ḥō·w·ṯî

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-she-brought-near to-him to-eat, and-he-took-strong-hold of-her and-said to-her: Come, lie with-me, my-sister.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וַתַּגֵּ֥שׁ וַתַּגֵּ֥שׁ (wat·tag·gêš, Hifil of nâgash, H5066) — “and she brought [it] near.” Strong's: “to be or come (causatively, bring) near (for any purpose).” It is the verb of bringing an offering near to an altar. BSB's “when she had brought them to him to eat” is accurate and inert; the Hebrew's last image of Tamar before the assault is a hand extended in offering.
  • וַיַּֽחֲזֶק־בָּהּ֙ וַיַּֽחֲזֶק־בָּהּ֙ (way·ya·ḥă·zeq, Hifil of châzaq, H2388, + preposition) — not “took hold of her” as one takes an arm, but a causative grip: he made himself strong upon her. The identical root returns in v. 14 (“he was stronger than she”). BSB uses two different English phrases for one Hebrew root and so loses the fact that the seizure and the overpowering are the same word twice.
  • אֲחוֹתִֽי׃ אֲחוֹתִֽי׃ (ʼă·ḥō·w·ṯî) — “my sister” is the final word of the Hebrew sentence, and the Hebrew puts it where it lands hardest. Gill: “one would think the relation he observes she stood in to him would have checked him from making so vile a motion.”
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וַתַּגֵּ֥שׁwat·tag·gêšAnd when she had brought [them]H5066
√ nâgash — to be or come (causatively, bring) near (for any purpose)Conjunctive wawVerbHifilConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אֵלָ֖יו’ê·lāwto himH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPrepositionthird person masculine singular
לֶֽאֱכֹ֑לle·’ĕ·ḵōlto eatH398
√ ʼâkal — to eat (literally or figuratively)Preposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
וַיַּֽחֲזֶק־way·ya·ḥă·zeq-he took holdH2388
√ châzaq — to fasten uponConjunctive wawVerbHifilConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
châzaq — to fasten upon, be strong (Hifil) The root of strength and of hardening — Pharaoh's heart is châzaq, Joshua is told to be châzaq. Here it is a man's physical advantage over his sister, used as an argument. The chapter's whole moral collapse is contained in the fact that this verb, not any word of law or love, decides the outcome.
בָּהּ֙bāhof her
Prepositionthird person feminine singular
וַיֹּ֣אמֶרway·yō·merand saidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
לָ֔הּlāh
Prepositionthird person feminine singular
בּ֛וֹאִיbō·w·’îComeH935
√ bôwʼ — to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)VerbQalImperativefeminine singular
שִׁכְבִ֥יšiḵ·ḇîlieH7901
√ shâkab — to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)VerbQalImperativefeminine singular
shâkab — to lie down (Qal imperative, fem. sg.) Strong's: “to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose).” The same root has been holding Amnon on his feigned sickbed since v. 6 and will describe the act in v. 14. One verb covers the pretence, the command, and the crime.
עִמִּ֖י‘im·mîwith meH5973
√ ʻim — adverb or preposition, with (iPrepositionfirst person common singular
אֲחוֹתִֽי׃’ă·ḥō·w·ṯîmy sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructfirst person common singular
ʼâchôwth — a sister The eighth kinship term in eleven verses. Every one of them so far has been used to gain access or to disarm suspicion; here it is used while committing the act the relation forbids.
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and when she handed him the food, he laid hold of her, and said
one would think the relation he observes she stood in to him would have checked him from making so vile a motion.
Let no one ever expect good treatment from those who are capable of attempting their seduction; but it is better to suffer the greatest wrong than to commit the least sin.
Henry's note covers 13:1-20 as a block; his closing maxim is addressed to readers in general, not framed as counsel to Tamar, who had no choice to make.
12““No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not violate me, for such a thin…”+

12“No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not violate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!

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’al- ’ā·ḥî wat·tō·mer lōw ’al- tə·‘an·nê·nî kî ḵên lō- yê·‘ā·śeh bə·yiś·rā·’êl ’al- ta·‘ă·śêh ’eṯ- haz·zōṯ han·nə·ḇā·lāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-she-said to-him: Nay, my-brother, do-not humble-me, for it-is-not done so in-Israel; do-not do this folly.

Where the English smooths the original

  • תְּעַנֵּ֔נִי תְּעַנֵּ֔נִי (tə·‘an·nê·nî, Piel of ʻânâh, H6031) — Strong's: “to depress… to humble, afflict.” BSB's “Do not violate me” names the act; the Hebrew names what the act does to a person. Pulpit protests the change: “literally, do not humble me. It is to be regretted that the word should be changed, as it bears testimony to the nobleness of the Hebrew women.” The same verb returns in vv. 14 and 22 — it is this text's technical term for rape.
  • לֹא־יֵֽעָשֶׂ֥ה יֵֽעָשֶׂ֥ה (yê·‘ā·śeh, Nifal imperfect of ʻâsâh, H6213) — an impersonal passive: “it is not done.” BSB's “such a thing should never be done” adds a modal. The Hebrew states a fact about Israel's character rather than issuing a prohibition, which is exactly why Cambridge reads it as an appeal to national calling rather than to statute.
  • הַנְּבָלָ֥ה הַנְּבָלָ֥ה (nᵉbâlâh, H5039) — “folly,” but with the definite article: the folly. A moderately rare noun (13 verses). Pulpit: the word “is used in the sense of unchastity in Genesis 34:7 and elsewhere, and it is noteworthy that the Jews thus connected crime with stupidity.” BSB's “disgraceful thing” captures the shame and loses the charge of moral idiocy.
  • בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל — “in Israel.” Not “in this family” and not “to me.” Tamar's argument is jurisdictional, and BSB keeps it; the weight is easy to miss in English because the phrase sounds like a location rather than a claim about who these people are.
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אַל־’al-NoH408
√ ʼal — not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative)Adverb
ʼal — not (deprecative) The negative of entreaty, not of law. Her first word is a plea, not a ruling.
אָחִי֙’ā·ḥîmy brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructfirst person common singular
וַתֹּ֣אמֶרwat·tō·mershe criedH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
ל֗וֹlōw
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
אַל־’al-Do notH408
√ ʼal — not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative)Adverb
תְּעַנֵּ֔נִיtə·‘an·nê·nîviolate meH6031
√ ʻânâh — to depress literally or figuratively, transitive or intransitive (in various applications, as follows)VerbPielImperfectsecond person masculine singularfirst person common singular
ʻânâh — to depress, humble, afflict (Piel) The verb of Israel's own oppression in Egypt (Ex 1:11-12) and of the affliction of the poor. To use it of a woman is to say that what is being done to her is what tyrants do to nations. Tamar chooses this word; her brother uses it of her in v. 22; the narrator uses it of the act in v. 14. Three witnesses, one verb.
כִּ֛יforH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
כֵ֖ןḵênsuchH3651
√ kên — properly, set uprightAdverb
לֹא־lō-a thing should neverH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absAdverbNegative particle
יֵֽעָשֶׂ֥הyê·‘ā·śehbe doneH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationVerbNifalImperfectthird person masculine singular
ʻâsâh — to do or make (Nifal) Impersonal passive, and the third appearance of this root in the unit: David told her to make food (v. 7), she made the cakes (v. 8), and now she argues from what is not done. The domestic verb becomes the ethical one.
בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑לbə·yiś·rā·’êlin IsraelH3478
√ Yisrâʼêl — Jisrael, a symbolical name of JacobPreposition-bNounpropermasculine singular
אַֽל־’al-Do notH408
√ ʼal — not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative)Adverb
תַּעֲשֵׂ֖הta·‘ă·śêhdoH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationVerbQalImperfectsecond person masculine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
הַזֹּֽאת׃haz·zōṯthisH2063
√ zôʼth — this (often used adverb)ArticlePronounfeminine singular
הַנְּבָלָ֥הhan·nə·ḇā·lāhdisgraceful thingH5039
√ nᵉbâlâh — foolishness, iArticleNounfeminine singular
nᵉbâlâh — foolishness, disgraceful folly A rare and technical noun (13 verses) whose first appearance, at Genesis 34:7, is the rape of Dinah. Barnes reads Tamar as quoting that verse deliberately. In Hebrew the nâbâl is not the unintelligent but the morally vacant — the man of Psalm 14:1 who says there is no God. Tamar is telling her brother what category he is about to enter.
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literally, do not humble me. It is to be regretted that the word should be changed, as it bears testimony to the nobleness of the Hebrew women, who regarded their chastity as their crown of honour.
Tamar's words are a verbal quotation from Genesis 34:7 . The natural inference is that Tamar knew the passage in Genesis, and wished to profit by the warning that it contained.
Israel was a holy nation, sanctified by the peculiar presence of Jehovah among them; and therefore all acts of unchastity were an offence against the true character and calling of the nation. Such acts might be common among heathen nations, but to Israel they were forbidden by the Law, which placed them on a loftier level of morality.
13“Where could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of t…”+

13Where could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of the fools in Israel! Please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.”

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’ā·nāh wa·’ă·nî ’ō·w·lîḵ ’eṯ- ḥer·pā·ṯî wə·’at·tāh tih·yeh kə·’a·ḥaḏ han·nə·ḇā·lîm bə·yiś·rā·’êl wə·‘at·tāh nā dab·ber- ’el- ham·me·leḵ kî lō yim·nā·‘ê·nî mim·me·kā

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-I — whither shall-I-carry my-reproach? And-thou, thou-shalt-be like-one-of the-fools in-Israel. And-now, speak-I-pray unto the-king, for he-will-not withhold me from-thee.

Where the English smooths the original

  • חֶרְפָּתִ֔י חֶרְפָּתִ֔י (ḥer·pā·ṯî, cherpâh, H2781) — Strong's: “contumely, disgrace, the pudenda.” Barnes prefers “my reproach” to BSB's “my shame,” pointing to Genesis 30:23, 34:14 and 1 Samuel 11:2. The distinction matters: shame sounds like a feeling she would have; reproach is a public verdict others will pass on her. It is not her guilt; it is her standing.
  • אוֹלִיךְ֙ אוֹלִיךְ֙ (ʼō·w·lîḵ, Hifil of hâlak, H1980) — “cause to go / carry.” BSB's “ever take” is weak. The image is of a woman with a burden and no destination — Gill: “was she to go into a corner, into a place the most private and retired, yet she would blush.” The same root will carry her out of the house in v. 19, going and crying.
  • הַנְּבָלִ֖ים הַנְּבָלִ֖ים (han·nə·ḇā·lîm, nâbâl, H5036, plural with article) — “the fools.” Strong's: “stupid.” Cambridge is exact: the word “denotes not merely one who is stupid and ignorant, but one who has abandoned the fear of God, and cast off the restraints of decency and morality.” BSB keeps “fools”; the English word has grown too mild to carry it.
  • יִמְנָעֵ֖נִי יִמְנָעֵ֖נִי (yim·nā·‘ê·nî, Qal of mânaʻ, H4513) — “he will not debar me [from thee].” BSB's “withhold me from you” is right. Every commentator here treats the sentence as a delaying tactic rather than a proposal — K&D quoting Clericus, Ellicott, Cambridge, JFB and Josephus all agree, since Leviticus forbids the marriage outright.
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אָ֤נָה’ā·nāhWhereH575
√ ʼân — where?Interrogative
וַאֲנִ֗יwa·’ă·nîcould IH589
√ ʼănîy — IConjunctive wawPronounfirst person common singular
אוֹלִיךְ֙’ō·w·lîḵever takeH1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)VerbHifilImperfectfirst person common singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
חֶרְפָּתִ֔יḥer·pā·ṯîmy shameH2781
√ cherpâh — contumely, disgrace, the pudendaNounfeminine singular constructfirst person common singular
cherpâh — reproach, disgrace A juridical and social word, not a private emotion: the reproach of childlessness taken away from Rachel (Gen 30:23), the reproach Nahash would put on Jabesh (1 Sam 11:2), the reproach the Psalmist bears for God's sake (Ps 69:9). Tamar's question is where a person puts a public verdict when no court will hear her. The chapter's answer is: nowhere — v. 20 shows her carrying it in her brother's house for the rest of her life.
וְאַתָּ֗הwə·’at·tāhAnd youH859
√ ʼattâh — thou and thee, or (plural) ye and youConjunctive wawPronounsecond person masculine singular
תִּהְיֶ֛הtih·yehwould beH1961
√ hâyâh — to exist, iVerbQalImperfectsecond person masculine singular
כְּאַחַ֥דkə·’a·ḥaḏlike oneH259
√ ʼechâd — properly, united, iPreposition-kNumbermasculine singular construct
הַנְּבָלִ֖יםhan·nə·ḇā·lîmof the foolsH5036
√ nâbâl — stupidArticleAdjectivemasculine plural
nâbâl — stupid, morally vacant The class name of Psalm 14:1. Tamar's second argument is not that Amnon will be punished but that he will be reclassified — the heir apparent demoted, permanently, into the company of Israel's nebalim. K&D reads her as saying “We should both of us reap nothing but shame from it.”
בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑לbə·yiś·rā·’êlin IsraelH3478
√ Yisrâʼêl — Jisrael, a symbolical name of JacobPreposition-bNounpropermasculine singular
וְעַתָּה֙wə·‘at·tāh. . .H6258
√ ʻattâh — at this time, whether adverb, conjunction or expletiveConjunctive wawAdverb
נָ֣אPleaseH4994
√ nâʼ — 'I pray', 'now', or 'then'Interjection
דַּבֶּר־dab·ber-speakH1696
√ dâbar — perhaps properly, to arrangeVerbPielImperativemasculine singular
dâbar — to speak, arrange (Piel imperative) Her last resort is procedure: take it to the king. The irony is total — the king has already been used, and in v. 21 he will hear everything and do nothing.
אֶל־’el-toH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPreposition
הַמֶּ֔לֶךְham·me·leḵthe kingH4428
√ melek — a kingArticleNounmasculine singular
melek — a king She appeals to the office, not to “our father.” Even here she argues like a citizen.
כִּ֛יforH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
לֹ֥אhe will notH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absAdverbNegative particle
יִמְנָעֵ֖נִיyim·nā·‘ê·nîwithhold meH4513
√ mânaʻ — to debar (negatively or positively) from benefit or injuryVerbQalImperfectthird person masculine singularfirst person common singular
מִמֶּֽךָּ׃mim·me·kāfrom youH4480
√ min — properly, a part ofPrepositionsecond person masculine singular
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denotes not merely one who is stupid and ignorant, but one who has abandoned the fear of God, and cast off the restraints of decency and morality.
She simply said this, as Clericus observes, "that she might escape from his hands by any means in her power
or because she thought her royal father could or would dispense with it, upon this extraordinary occasion, to save his first-born son’s life
Poole offers this as one of three possible explanations of Tamar's words; the other commentators uniformly prefer the reading that she was only buying time.
14“But Amnon refused to listen to her, and being stronger, he viola…”+

14But Amnon refused to listen to her, and being stronger, he violated her and lay with her.

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wə·lō ’ā·ḇāh liš·mō·a‘ bə·qō·w·lāh way·ye·ḥĕ·zaq mim·men·nāh way·‘an·ne·hā way·yiš·kaḇ ’ō·ṯāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-he-was-not willing to-hear to-her-voice, and-he-was-stronger than-she, and-he-humbled-her and-he-lay-with her.

Where the English smooths the original

  • אָבָ֖ה אָבָ֖ה (ʼā·ḇāh, Qal perfect of ʼâbâh, H14) — Strong's: “to breathe after,” hence to be willing, to consent. BSB's “refused to listen” is the effect; the Hebrew says he was not willing. It is a verb of the will, not of the ear, and the same verb closes v. 16 when he will not listen to her second plea either.
  • בְּקוֹלָ֑הּ בְּקוֹלָ֑הּ (bə·qō·w·lāh, qôwl, H6963) — “to her voice.” BSB reduces it to “to her” and marks the phrase with dots. The Hebrew idiom “hear the voice of” is the idiom of obedience to God (Gen 22:18, Ex 19:5). The narrator says Amnon would not obey his sister's voice — and Tamar's voice was, for four verses, the only voice in this chapter speaking the law.
  • וַיֶּחֱזַ֤ק מִמֶּ֙נָּה֙ וַיֶּחֱזַ֤ק (châzaq, H2388, Qal with comparative min) — “and he was stronger than she.” The same root as v. 11's seizure, now stated as a comparison. BSB's “and being stronger” turns the main verb into a participle and subordinates it. The Hebrew reports it as an event: superior force is the whole of his argument.
  • וַיְעַנֶּ֔הָ וַיְעַנֶּ֔הָ (way·‘an·ne·hā, Piel of ʻânâh, H6031) — the verb Tamar herself used in v. 12 (“do not humble me”), now narrated of her. BSB renders her plea “violate me” and this clause “he violated her,” which at least keeps them matched; the older “forced her” obscures that the narrator is quoting the victim's own word back.
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וְלֹ֥אwə·lōBut [Amnon] refusedH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absConjunctive wawAdverbNegative particle
אָבָ֖ה’ā·ḇāh. . .H14
√ ʼâbâh — to breathe after, iVerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singular
ʼâbâh — to be willing, to consent The Hebrew Bible uses this verb overwhelmingly in the negative: Pharaoh would not, Sihon would not, Israel would not hearken. It is the standing vocabulary of hardened refusal, and the narrator drops Amnon into that company without further comment.
לִשְׁמֹ֣עַliš·mō·a‘to listen to herH8085
√ shâmaʻ — to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience, etcPreposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
בְּקוֹלָ֑הּbə·qō·w·lāh. . .H6963
√ qôwl — a voice or soundPreposition-bNounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
וַיֶּחֱזַ֤קway·ye·ḥĕ·zaqand being strongerH2388
√ châzaq — to fasten uponConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
châzaq — to be strong (Qal) Force settles what argument could not. K&D's entire comment on this verse is a single flat sentence; so is the Hebrew's. The restraint is the judgment.
מִמֶּ֙נָּה֙mim·men·nāh. . .H4480
√ min — properly, a part ofPrepositionthird person feminine singular
וַיְעַנֶּ֔הָway·‘an·ne·hāhe violated herH6031
√ ʻânâh — to depress literally or figuratively, transitive or intransitive (in various applications, as follows)Conjunctive wawVerbPielConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singularthird person feminine singular
ʻânâh — to humble, afflict (Piel) The chapter's technical verb for rape, and the hinge of the whole unit. Tamar names the act before it happens (v. 12); the narrator names it as it happens (v. 14); Absalom names it as the reason he hates Amnon (v. 22). Three speakers, one word, no euphemism. Against the gentler circumlocutions used elsewhere in the chapter — Absalom's “has Amnon been with you?” — the narrator's own vocabulary refuses to look away.
וַיִּשְׁכַּ֖בway·yiš·kaḇand lay withH7901
√ shâkab — to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
shâkab — to lie down The verb that has run through the feigned sickbed (vv. 6, 8) and the command (v. 11) reaches its object here.
אֹתָֽהּ׃’ō·ṯāhherH854
√ ʼêth — properly, nearness (used only as a preposition or an adverb), nearPrepositionthird person feminine singular
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Amnon would not listen to her, however, but overpowered her, forced her, and lay with her.
His lust was so inflamed and enraged, that he could not attend to any arguments, though ever so forcible, that were offered to him
The remonstrances and arguments of Tamar were so affecting and so strong, that had not Amnon been violently goaded on by the lustful passion of which he had become the slave, they must have prevailed with him to desist from his infamous purpose.
15“Then Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was g…”+

15Then Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was greater than the love he previously had. “Get up!” he said to her. “Be gone!”

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’am·nō·wn way·yiś·nā·’e·hā gə·ḏō·w·lāh mə·’ōḏ kî śin·’āh śə·nê·’āh ḡə·ḏō·w·lāh haś·śin·’āh ’ă·šer mê·’a·hă·ḇāh ’ă·šer ’ă·hê·ḇāh qū·mî way·yō·mer- lāh ’am·nō·wn lê·ḵî

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Amnon hated-her a-hatred great exceedingly, for greater was the-hatred which he-hated-her than the-love which he-had-loved-her. And-Amnon said to-her: Arise, go!

Where the English smooths the original

  • שִׂנְאָה֙ / שְׂנֵאָ֔הּ שִׂנְאָה֙ (sinʼâh, H8135) with שְׂנֵאָ֔הּ (sânêʼ, H8130) — noun and cognate verb stacked, the Hebrew figure of intensity: “he hated her a hatred.” BSB's “hated Tamar with such intensity” smooths the doubling away. The verse then repeats the noun a third time before setting it against the love-noun. Four hate-words to two love-words: the arithmetic is the point.
  • מֵאַהֲבָ֖ה מֵאַהֲבָ֖ה (ʼahăbâh, H160) — the noun, whose Strong's entry is candid: “affection (in a good or a bad sense).” BSB's “the love he previously had” is right, and the verse is the narrator's retraction of the word he lent Amnon in v. 1. Ellicott: this “shows that Amnon was governed, not by love, but by mere animal passion.”
  • ק֥וּמִי לֵֽכִי׃ ק֥וּמִי לֵֽכִי׃ (qū·mî lê·ḵî) — two bare feminine imperatives, “Arise! Go!” No name, no address, no kinship word. BSB's “Get up!… Be gone!” catches the tone. Gill notices the omission: “without calling her by her name, or owning the relation she bore to him.” The word sister, worn out in service of the crime, is never spoken again by Amnon.
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אַמְנ֗וֹן’am·nō·wnThen AmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיִּשְׂנָאֶ֣הָway·yiś·nā·’e·hāhated [Tamar]H8130
√ sânêʼ — to hate (personally)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singularthird person feminine singular
sânêʼ — to hate personally (Qal) The reversal that defines the chapter. Deuteronomy 22:13-19 legislates for exactly this — a man who takes a wife and then hates her and puts an evil name on her — and prescribes that he may never send her away. Amnon does precisely what that law forbids, in the same vocabulary, within one verse.
גְּדוֹלָ֣הgə·ḏō·w·lāhwith such intensityH1419
√ gâdôwl — great (in any sense)Adjectivefeminine singular
מְאֹ֔דmə·’ōḏ. . .H3966
√ mᵉʼôd — properly, vehemence, iAdverb
כִּ֣יthatH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
שִׂנְאָה֙śin·’āhhis hatredH8135
√ sinʼâh — hateNounfeminine singular
שְׂנֵאָ֔הּśə·nê·’āh. . .H8130
√ sânêʼ — to hate (personally)VerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singularthird person feminine singular
גְדוֹלָ֗הḡə·ḏō·w·lāhwas greater thanH1419
√ gâdôwl — great (in any sense)Adjectivefeminine singular
gâdôwl — great The measuring adjective, used twice in one verse (of the hatred, and in the comparison) and again in v. 16 of the wrong. The chapter keeps weighing things and finding the wrong heavier each time.
הַשִּׂנְאָה֙haś·śin·’āh. . .H8135
√ sinʼâh — hateArticleNounfeminine singular
אֲשֶׁ֣ר’ă·šerH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
מֵאַהֲבָ֖הmê·’a·hă·ḇāhthe loveH160
√ ʼahăbâh — {affection (in a good or a bad sense)}Preposition-mNounfeminine singular
ʼahăbâh — love, affection The narrator's retrospective audit. Whatever v. 1's ʼâhab named, this verse measures it and finds it smaller than the hatred that replaced it. K&D draws the conclusion the text implies: the reversal “furnishes a striking proof that lust is not love, but simply the gratification of the animal passions.”
אֲשֶׁ֣ר’ă·šerH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
אֲהֵבָ֑הּ’ă·hê·ḇāhhe previously hadH157
√ ʼâhab — to have affection for (sexually or otherwise)VerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singularthird person feminine singular
ק֥וּמִיqū·mîGet upH6965
√ qûwm — to rise (in various applications, literal, figurative, intensive and causative)VerbQalImperativefeminine singular
qûwm — to rise (Qal imperative, fem. sg.) The verb of standing up, used here to mean get out. In v. 19 she will rise and go under her own power, tearing her robe as she goes.
וַֽיֹּאמֶר־way·yō·mer-he saidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
לָ֥הּlāhto her
Prepositionthird person feminine singular
אַמְנ֖וֹן’am·nō·wnH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
לֵֽכִי׃lê·ḵîBe goneH1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)VerbQalImperativefeminine singular
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This result shows that Amnon was governed, not by love, but by mere animal passion.
Ellicott's preceding sentence quotes Tacitus by way of Kirkpatrick; the maxim is classical, not scriptural.
This sudden change, which may be fully explained from a psychological point of view, and is frequently exemplified still in actual life, furnishes a striking proof that lust is not love, but simply the gratification of the animal passions.
The horror of his guilt struck him with a sudden detestation of her whom he deemed the cause of it, and he hated his sister when he should have hated himself.
16““No,” she replied, “sending me away is worse than this great wro…”+

16“No,” she replied, “sending me away is worse than this great wrong you have already done to me!” But he refused to listen to her.

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’al- ’ō·w·ḏōṯ wat·tō·mer lōw lə·šal·lə·ḥê·nî mê·’a·ḥe·reṯ haz·zōṯ hag·gə·ḏō·w·lāh hā·rā·‘āh ’ă·šer- ‘ā·śî·ṯā ‘im·mî wə·lō ’ā·ḇāh liš·mō·a‘ lāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-she-said to-him: Nay — concerning this evil, greater [is it] than the-other which thou-hast-done with-me, to-send-me-away. And-he-was-not willing to-hear to-her.

Where the English smooths the original

  • אַל־אוֹדֹ֞ת אַל־אוֹדֹ֞ת (ʼal-ʼōwḏōṯ, H408 + H182, “turnings / on account of”) — the crux of the unit. BSB's “No… sending me away is worse than this” reads smoothly, but Cambridge states flatly: “The Heb. text cannot be so translated, and is certainly corrupt.” Barnes: “The Hebrew text is probably corrupt.” Pulpit, after canvassing Philippsohn and Cahen: “Flat as this is, no better rendering is possible.” K&D salvages it by supplying an elided verb. Our literal keeps the Masoretic awkwardness visible rather than smoothing it.
  • לְשַׁלְּחֵ֑נִי לְשַׁלְּחֵ֑נִי (lə·šal·lə·ḥê·nî, Piel infinitive of shâlach, H7971) — “to send me away.” The Piel is the intensive of the very verb used in v. 7 when David sent her (Qal). BSB uses “sent word” there and “sending me away” here; the Hebrew uses one root, and the symmetry is the tragedy: dispatched by her father, discarded by her brother.
  • הָרָעָ֤ה הַגְּדוֹלָה֙ הָרָעָ֤ה הַגְּדוֹלָה֙ (raʻ, H7451 + gâdôwl, H1419) — “the great evil.” BSB's “this great wrong” is softer than raʻ, which Strong's glosses “bad or (as noun) evil (natural or moral).” Poole explains why the expulsion could be called the greater evil: it made it look “as if she had been an impudent strumpet, and had either enticed him to the sin, or at least consented to it.”
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אַל־’al-NoH408
√ ʼal — not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative)Adverb
אוֹדֹ֞ת’ō·w·ḏōṯ. . .H182
√ ʼôwdôwth — turnings (iNounfeminine plural construct
ʼôwdôwth — turnings, occasions A preposition-like noun (“concerning”) that will not carry the sentence as pointed; the textual difficulty sits on this word.
וַתֹּ֣אמֶרwat·tō·mershe repliedH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
ל֗וֹlōw
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
לְשַׁלְּחֵ֑נִיlə·šal·lə·ḥê·nîsending me awayH7971
√ shâlach — to send away, for, or out (in a great variety of applications)Preposition-lVerbPielInfinitive constructfirst person common singular
shâlach — to send away (Piel) The Piel of this root is the divorce verb (Deut 24:1) and the verb of formal dismissal. Tamar is protesting a legal as well as a personal act: to be put out of the house is to be publicly declared the guilty party. K&D adds the point that seals the injustice — she could not have cried out as Deuteronomy 22:27 requires, because Amnon had himself removed every witness in v. 9.
מֵאַחֶ֛רֶתmê·’a·ḥe·reṯ[is worse] thanH312
√ ʼachêr — properly, hinderPreposition-mAdjectivefeminine singular
הַזֹּ֔אתhaz·zōṯthisH2063
√ zôʼth — this (often used adverb)ArticlePronounfeminine singular
הַגְּדוֹלָה֙hag·gə·ḏō·w·lāhgreatH1419
√ gâdôwl — great (in any sense)ArticleAdjectivefeminine singular
הָרָעָ֤הhā·rā·‘āhwrongH7451
√ raʻ — bad or (as noun) evil (natural or moral)ArticleAdjectivefeminine singular
raʻ — bad, evil (moral or natural) Her comparison is not of sins but of harms. Gill is careful about the distinction: “not that this was a greater sin, but it was a greater evil or injury to her, that being done secretly, this openly.” The text lets the victim rank her own injuries, which few ancient narratives do.
אֲשֶׁר־’ă·šer-H834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
עָשִׂ֥יתָ‘ā·śî·ṯāyou have already doneH6213
√ ʻâsâh — to do or make, in the broadest sense and widest applicationVerbQalPerfectsecond person masculine singular
עִמִּ֖י‘im·mîto meH5973
√ ʻim — adverb or preposition, with (iPrepositionfirst person common singular
וְלֹ֥אwə·lōBut he refusedH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absConjunctive wawAdverbNegative particle
אָבָ֖ה’ā·ḇāh. . .H14
√ ʼâbâh — to breathe after, iVerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singular
ʼâbâh — to be willing The verse ends exactly as v. 14 began: he was not willing to hear. The refusal bookends the crime.
לִשְׁמֹ֥עַֽliš·mō·a‘to listenH8085
√ shâmaʻ — to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience, etcPreposition-lVerbQalInfinitive construct
לָֽהּ׃lāhto her
Prepositionthird person feminine singular
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The Heb. text cannot be so translated, and is certainly corrupt. The Sept. is also confused, but its original reading as indicated by the Old Latin Version gives an excellent sense
do not add to the great wrong which thou hast done me the still greater one of thrusting me away.
K&D reaches this by supplying an elided verb; Cambridge, Barnes and Pulpit all judge the Hebrew corrupt, so this rendering is a reconstruction.
because it exposed her to public infamy and contempt, as if she had been an impudent strumpet, and had either enticed him to the sin, or at least consented to it
17“Instead, he called to his attendant and said, “Throw this woman …”+

17Instead, he called to his attendant and said, “Throw this woman out and bolt the door behind her!”

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way·yiq·rā ’eṯ- na·‘ă·rōw mə·šā·rə·ṯōw way·yō·mer šil·ḥū- nā ’eṯ- zōṯ mê·‘ā·lay ha·ḥū·ṣāh ū·nə·‘ōl had·de·leṯ ’a·ḥă·re·hā

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-he-called to-his-lad, the-one-serving-him, and-said: Send-out now this from-upon-me, outside — and-bolt the-door after-her.

Where the English smooths the original

  • זֹ֛את זֹ֛את (zōṯ, H2063) — a bare feminine demonstrative: “this.” There is no noun. BSB supplies “this woman” and marks nothing; the Hebrew simply omits her humanity. Gill: “using her and speaking of her in a very rude and scandalous manner, calling her this, leaving it to be supplied, as they would understand it.” This is the last thing Amnon calls the sister he called my sister four times.
  • שִׁלְחוּ־נָ֥א שִׁלְחוּ־נָ֥א (šil·ḥū-nā, Qal imperative plural of shâlach with the courtesy particle) — “send out, please.” BSB's “Throw this woman out” supplies the violence from context; the Hebrew is grotesquely polite, and uses the same nâʼ that David used when he sent her in at v. 7. The particle of entreaty frames both ends of her ordeal.
  • וּנְעֹ֥ל הַדֶּ֖לֶת וּנְעֹ֥ל (ū·nə·‘ōl, Qal imperative of nâʻal, H5274, “to fasten up”) with הַדֶּ֖לֶת (deleth, H1817, Strong's “something swinging”) — “and bolt the door after her.” BSB keeps it. JFB supplies the social fact that makes it shocking: in a great house a porter made bolting unnecessary, so “a prince giving an order so unusual shows the vehement perturbation of Ammon's mind.”
  • נַעֲרוֹ֙ מְשָׁ֣רְת֔וֹ נַעֲרוֹ֙ (naʻar, H5288, a boy or young servant) with מְשָׁ֣רְת֔וֹ (shârath, H8334, Piel participle, “the one attending him”) — BSB compresses both into “his attendant.” The doubling is the narrator's: Amnon's crime is now delegated to a servant boy, and it is that boy who will handle a king's daughter.
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וַיִּקְרָ֗אway·yiq·rāInstead, he calledH7121
√ qârâʼ — to call out to (iConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אֶֽת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
נַעֲרוֹ֙na·‘ă·rōwto his attendantH5288
√ naʻar — (concretely) a boy (as active), from the age of infancy to adolescenceNounmasculine singular constructthird person masculine singular
naʻar — a boy, a young servant Strong's: from infancy to adolescence. The same word is used of Absalom's servants who will kill Amnon in v. 29. Household staff execute every act in this chapter that the principals will not touch.
מְשָׁ֣רְת֔וֹmə·šā·rə·ṯōw. . .H8334
√ shârath — to attend as a menial or worshipperVerbPielParticiplemasculine singular constructthird person masculine singular
וַיֹּ֕אמֶרway·yō·merand saidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
שִׁלְחוּ־šil·ḥū-ThrowH7971
√ shâlach — to send away, for, or out (in a great variety of applications)VerbQalImperativemasculine plural
נָ֥א. . .H4994
√ nâʼ — 'I pray', 'now', or 'then'Interjection
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
זֹ֛אתzōṯthis [woman]H2063
√ zôʼth — this (often used adverb)Pronounfeminine singular
zôʼth — this (feminine demonstrative) Grammatically this is the cheapest word in the verse and theologically the most expensive. Ellicott reads the intent: “Amnon doubtless intended to give the impression that Tamar had behaved shamefully towards him.” By refusing her a noun in front of a servant, he writes the household's version of events in one syllable.
מֵעָלַ֖יmê·‘ā·lay. . .H5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition-mfirst person common singular
הַח֑וּצָהha·ḥū·ṣāhoutH2351
√ chûwts — properly, separate by awall, iArticleNounmasculine singularthird person feminine singular
chûwts — outside, the street Literally the place beyond the wall. Everything Amnon has done since v. 9 has been about who is inside the room; now she is put where everyone can see.
וּנְעֹ֥לū·nə·‘ōland boltH5274
√ nâʻal — properly, to fasten up, iConjunctive wawVerbQalImperativemasculine singular
nâʻal — to fasten up, to bolt The bolting is not security but verdict: a bolted door says the person outside was expelled, not released. K&D: it was done “so that it had the appearance of her having made a shameful proposal to him.”
הַדֶּ֖לֶתhad·de·leṯthe doorH1817
√ deleth — something swinging, iArticleNounfeminine singular
אַחֲרֶֽיהָ׃’a·ḥă·re·hābehind herH310
√ ʼachar — properly, the hind partPrepositionthird person feminine singular
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Amnon doubtless intended to give the impression that Tamar had behaved shamefully towards him. The baseness of this insinuation is in keeping with his brutality.
the circumstance, therefore, of a prince giving an order so unusual shows the vehement perturbation of Ammon's mind.
using her and speaking of her in a very rude and scandalous manner, calling her this, leaving it to be supplied, as they would understand it, this base woman
18“So Amnon’s attendant threw her out and bolted the door behind he…”+

18So Amnon’s attendant threw her out and bolted the door behind her. Now Tamar was wearing a robe of many colors, because this is what the king’s virgin daughters wore.

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mə·šā·rə·ṯōw way·yō·ṣê ’ō·w·ṯāh ha·ḥūṣ wə·nā·‘al had·de·leṯ ’a·ḥă·re·hā wə·‘ā·le·hā kə·ṯō·neṯ pas·sîm kî ḵên ham·me·leḵ hab·bə·ṯū·lōṯ mə·‘î·lîm ḇə·nō·wṯ- til·baš·nā

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-upon-her a-tunic-of-strips, for so did-the-daughters-of the-king, the-virgins, clothe-themselves — robes. And-his-attendant brought-her outside, and-bolted the-door after-her.

Where the English smooths the original

  • כְּתֹ֣נֶת פַּסִּ֔ים כְּתֹ֣נֶת פַּסִּ֔ים (kᵉthôneth passîm, H3801 + H6446) — BSB's “a robe of many colors” follows the old versions. Ellicott: “The word is used only here and in connection with Joseph (Genesis 37:3; 37:23; 37:32), and is supposed to mean a tunic with long sleeves.” Cambridge, Barnes and K&D agree on sleeves; Pulpit prefers colours “like those of the Scottish tartans.” Strong's hedges too: “a long and sleeved tunic (perhaps simply a wide one).” The English picks one sense; the Hebrew has not settled it.
  • מְעִילִ֑ים מְעִילִ֑ים (mᵉʻîlîm, H4598, “robes”) — BSB reduces this word to dots. Pulpit argues it is a separate garment and that the clause is a marginal note: “For so king's daughters, while unmarried, wore over mantles.” K&D takes mᵉʻîlîm as an accusative of manner with the verb. Either way the Hebrew names two garments where BSB shows one.
  • הַבְּתוּלֹ֖ת הַבְּתוּלֹ֖ת (bᵉthûlôt, H1330, plural) — “the virgins.” The status word of v. 2 returns as a dress code. BSB keeps it. The narrator places this note precisely here — between the order to throw her out and its execution — so that the reader sees what the servant saw and still did.
  • וַיֹּצֵ֨א וַיֹּצֵ֨א (way·yō·ṣê, Hifil of yâtsâʼ, H3318) — “and he brought her out.” The same causative stem that cleared the room of servants in v. 9 now has Tamar as its object. BSB's “threw her out” supplies force the verb does not carry; the horror is that it is the ordinary word for putting something outside.
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מְשָֽׁרְתוֹ֙mə·šā·rə·ṯōwSo Amnon’s attendantH8334
√ shârath — to attend as a menial or worshipperVerbPielParticiplemasculine singular constructthird person masculine singular
shârath — to attend as a menial or worshipper The participle used of priests ministering before the LORD, here of a boy carrying out an eviction. K&D states the outcome: “Notwithstanding this dress, by which a king's daughter could at once be recognised, Amnon's servant treated Tamar like a common woman, and turned her out of the house.”
וַיֹּצֵ֨אway·yō·ṣêthrewH3318
√ yâtsâʼ — to go (causatively, bring) out, in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively, direct and proximConjunctive wawVerbHifilConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אוֹתָ֤הּ’ō·w·ṯāhherH853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object markerthird person feminine singular
הַח֔וּץha·ḥūṣoutH2351
√ chûwts — properly, separate by awall, iArticleNounmasculine singular
וְנָעַ֥לwə·nā·‘aland boltedH5274
√ nâʻal — properly, to fasten up, iConjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectthird person masculine singular
הַדֶּ֖לֶתhad·de·leṯthe doorH1817
√ deleth — something swinging, iArticleNounfeminine singular
deleth — a door The bolt of v. 17 is now actually thrown. The command and its execution are narrated in nearly identical words, which is the writer's way of saying nobody hesitated.
אַחֲרֶֽיהָ׃’a·ḥă·re·hābehind herH310
√ ʼachar — properly, the hind partPrepositionthird person feminine singular
וְעָלֶ֙יהָ֙wə·‘ā·le·hāNow Tamar was wearingH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsConjunctive wawPrepositionthird person feminine singular
כְּתֹ֣נֶתkə·ṯō·neṯa robeH3801
√ kᵉthôneth — a shirtNounfeminine singular construct
פַּסִּ֔יםpas·sîmof many colorsH6446
√ paç — a long and sleeved tunic (perhaps simply a wide oneNounmasculine plural
paç — a long and sleeved tunic / strips A genuinely rare lexeme: five verses in the whole Hebrew Bible, and every one of them is either Joseph's coat or Tamar's. The Verifier confirms the shared root. In both narratives it is a father's mark of favour on a child, and in both it is torn and carried to a grieving father as evidence. Here Tamar tears it herself.
כִּי֩becauseH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
כֵ֨ןḵênthis is whatH3651
√ kên — properly, set uprightAdverb
הַמֶּ֛לֶךְham·me·leḵthe king’sH4428
√ melek — a kingArticleNounmasculine singular
הַבְּתוּלֹ֖תhab·bə·ṯū·lōṯvirginH1330
√ bᵉthûwlâh — a virgin (from her privacy)ArticleNounfeminine plural
bᵉthûwlâh — a virgin (from her privacy) The clause is an explanatory note by the narrator, and its placement is deliberate: the reader is told what the robe means at the exact moment the robe stops protecting her.
מְעִילִ֑יםmə·‘î·lîm. . .H4598
√ mᵉʻîyl — a robe (iNounmasculine plural
בְנוֹת־ḇə·nō·wṯ-daughtersH1323
√ bath — a daughter (used in the same wide sense as other terms of relationship, literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine plural construct
תִּלְבַּ֧שְׁןָtil·baš·nāworeH3847
√ lâbash — properly, wrap around, iVerbQalImperfectthird person feminine plural
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The expression is used elsewhere only of Joseph’s “coat of many colours” ( Genesis 37:3 ; Genesis 37:23 ), and probably means a long tunic with sleeves
Notwithstanding this dress, by which a king's daughter could at once be recognised, Amnon's servant treated Tamar like a common woman, and turned her out of the house.
not parted with as an innocent woman, cruelly injured, but thrust out as a prostitute that had seduced to sin, is the strongest image of innocence, barbarously abused, and insufferably insulted, that history affords us
Benson is quoting Delaney, not writing in his own voice; the attribution is Benson's page, the words are Delaney's.
19“And Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her robe. And putting h…”+

19And Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her robe. And putting her hand on her head, she went away crying aloud.

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tā·mār wat·tiq·qaḥ ’ê·p̄er ‘al- rō·šāh qā·rā·‘āh hap·pas·sîm ’ă·šer ū·ḵə·ṯō·neṯ ‘ā·le·hā wat·tā·śem yā·ḏāh ‘al- rō·šāh wat·tê·leḵ hā·lō·wḵ wə·zā·‘ā·qāh

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Tamar took ashes upon her-head, and-the-tunic-of-strips which was-upon-her she-tore, and-she-put her-hand upon her-head, and-she-went, going and-crying-out.

Where the English smooths the original

  • אֵ֙פֶר֙ אֵ֙פֶר֙ (ʼê·p̄er, H665) — “ashes.” BSB keeps it. Pulpit notices where they came from: “she cast ashes upon her head from the very fire which she had just used in cooking.” The instruments of her service become the signs of her ruin, in the same room.
  • קָרָ֑עָה קָרָ֑עָה (qā·rā·‘āh, Qal of qâraʻ, H7167) — “and she tore.” BSB's “tore her robe” is correct; what the English cannot show is that the object is the kᵉthôneth passîm of v. 18, which the narrator has just told us marks a king's virgin daughter. Gill reads the act as a sign language: “signifying that her virginity was rent from her in a forcible manner.”
  • וַתָּ֤שֶׂם יָדָהּ֙ עַל־רֹאשָׁ֔הּ וַתָּ֤שֶׂם יָדָהּ֙ (sûwm, H7760, + yâd, H3027) — “and she put her hand upon her head.” BSB's “putting her hand on her head” is literal. The commentators divide on the meaning: Barnes thinks it was “to hold on the ashes”; Benson and Poole read shame, “as if she were unable to show her face”; K&D reads it as the gesture of Jeremiah 2:37, a sign that the hand of God's trouble rests on a person. The Hebrew does not say.
  • הָל֖וֹךְ וְזָעָֽקָה׃ הָל֖וֹךְ וְזָעָֽקָה׃ — an infinitive absolute of hâlak with zâʻaq (H2199), Strong's “to shriek (from anguish or danger).” Literally “going and crying out.” BSB's “she went away crying aloud” is fair; Cambridge insists on the register: “Went away shrieking as she went; not lamenting with silent tears, but with loud passionate shrieks and wailing.”
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תָּמָ֥רtā·mārAnd TamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
וַתִּקַּ֨חwat·tiq·qaḥputH3947
√ lâqach — to take (in the widest variety of applications)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
אֵ֙פֶר֙’ê·p̄erashesH665
√ ʼêpher — ashesNounmasculine singular
ʼêpher — ashes Ashes plus torn clothes is the formal posture of catastrophe and of repentance (Esth 4:1, Job 42:6). Here it is made by the innocent party, because no one else in the chapter will mourn anything.
עַל־‘al-onH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition
רֹאשָׁ֔הּrō·šāhher headH7218
√ rôʼsh — the head (as most easily shaken), whether literal or figurative (in many applications, of place, time, rank, itcNounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
קָרָ֑עָהqā·rā·‘āhand toreH7167
√ qâraʻ — to rend, literally or figuratively (revile, paint the eyes, as if enlarging them)VerbQalPerfectthird person feminine singular
qâraʻ — to rend The covenant gesture of grief (Jacob over Joseph's coat, Gen 37:34; David over Saul, 2 Sam 1:11). Tamar performs the full public rite of mourning for herself while still alive, and she tears the one garment that identified her as a king's daughter.
הַפַּסִּ֛יםhap·pas·sîmH6446
√ paç — a long and sleeved tunic (perhaps simply a wide oneArticleNounmasculine plural
אֲשֶׁ֥ר’ă·šerherH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
וּכְתֹ֧נֶתū·ḵə·ṯō·neṯrobeH3801
√ kᵉthôneth — a shirtConjunctive wawNounfeminine singular construct
עָלֶ֖יהָ‘ā·le·hāH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPrepositionthird person feminine singular
וַתָּ֤שֶׂםwat·tā·śemAnd puttingH7760
√ sûwm — to put (used in a great variety of applications, literal, figurative, inferentially, and elliptically)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
יָדָהּ֙yā·ḏāhher handH3027
√ yâd — a hand (the open one (indicating power, means, direction, etcNounfeminine singular constructthird person feminine singular
yâd — a hand The hand that Amnon wanted food from in vv. 5, 6 and 10 is now on her own head. The unit's most repeated body part completes its arc.
עַל־‘al-onH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition
רֹאשָׁ֔הּrō·šāhher headH7218
√ rôʼsh — the head (as most easily shaken), whether literal or figurative (in many applications, of place, time, rank, itcNounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
וַתֵּ֥לֶךְwat·tê·leḵshe went awayH1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
הָל֖וֹךְhā·lō·wḵ. . .H1980
√ hâlak — to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)VerbQalInfinitive absolute
וְזָעָֽקָה׃wə·zā·‘ā·qāhcrying aloudH2199
√ zâʻaq — to shriek (from anguish or danger)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConjunctive perfectthird person feminine singular
zâʻaq — to shriek from anguish or danger This is not the verb of weeping but the verb of the cry that summons help or judgment — the cry of Israel in Egypt that God says he heard (Ex 2:23), the cry of Abel's blood by analogy, the legal outcry of Deuteronomy 22:24 that a violated woman is expected to raise. She could not raise it in the room, because the room had been emptied; she raises it in the street, where it can be heard and where the narrator records it. It is the only sound in this chapter that tells the truth.
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Went away shrieking as she went ; not lamenting with silent tears, but with loud passionate shrieks and wailing.
laid her hand upon her head (as a sign that a grievous trouble had come upon her, that the hand of God was resting as it were upon her
K&D's reading of the gesture via Jeremiah 2:37 is one of three offered by the voices here; Barnes thinks it merely held the ashes on.
If David had foreseen this sad sight when giving way to his passion for Bathsheba, he would have felt that sin is indeed "folly," and that its pleasure is followed by shame and bitter anguish.
20“Her brother Absalom said to her, “Has your brother Amnon been wi…”+

20Her brother Absalom said to her, “Has your brother Amnon been with you? Be quiet for now, my sister. He is your brother. Do not take this thing to heart.” So Tamar lived as a desolate woman in the house of her brother Absalom.

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’ā·ḥî·hā ’aḇ·šā·lō·wm way·yō·mer ’ê·le·hā ’ā·ḥîḵ ha·’ă·mî·nō·wn hā·yāh ‘im·māḵ ha·ḥă·rî·šî wə·‘at·tāh ’ă·ḥō·w·ṯî hū ’ā·ḥîḵ ’al- tā·šî·ṯî ’eṯ- haz·zeh lad·dā·ḇār lib·bêḵ tā·mār wat·tê·šeḇ wə·šō·mê·māh bêṯ ’ā·ḥî·hā ’aḇ·šā·lō·wm

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Absalom her-brother said to-her: Has-Aminon thy-brother been with-thee? And-now, my-sister, be-silent — he is thy-brother; do-not set thy-heart to this thing. And-Tamar dwelt, and-desolate, in-the-house-of Absalom her-brother.

Where the English smooths the original

  • הַאֲמִינ֣וֹן הַאֲמִינ֣וֹן (ha·’ă·mî·nō·wn) — the Hebrew here, and only here, reads Aminon, not Amnon. BSB silently normalises it. Ellicott calls it “a clerical error”; Gill and Cambridge report the Jewish reading that it is a contemptuous diminutive; Cambridge allows it “may possibly be only an accidental variation.” Our rendering keeps the form and does not decide.
  • הָיָ֣ה עִמָּךְ֒ הָיָ֣ה עִמָּךְ֒ — “has he been with thee?” BSB keeps the euphemism. K&D notes it is the same circumlocution as Genesis 39:10; Poole commends it — “behold, and imitate the modesty of Scripture expressions.” ⚙ But set beside the narrator's own blunt ʻânâh in v. 14, Absalom's delicacy reads less like modesty than like the beginning of the cover-up.
  • הַחֲרִ֙ישִׁי֙ הַחֲרִ֙ישִׁי֙ (ha·ḥă·rî·šî, Hifil imperative of chârash, H2790) — Strong's root sense is “to scratch,” i.e. to engrave or plough, and in this stem to be silent. BSB's “Be quiet for now” is right. The causative force matters: he is not asking her to feel calm but to produce silence.
  • וְשֹׁ֣מֵמָ֔ה וְשֹׁ֣מֵמָ֔ה (wə·šō·mê·māh, Qal participle of shâmêm, H8076) — “and desolate.” BSB's “as a desolate woman” adds a noun. K&D is firm on the sense: “as one laid waste, with the joy of her life hopelessly destroyed. It cannot be proved that shâmêm ever means single or solitary.” It is the word used of ruined cities and a stripped land.
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אָחִ֗יהָ’ā·ḥî·hāHer brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
אַבְשָׁל֣וֹם’aḇ·šā·lō·wmAbsalomH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וַיֹּ֨אמֶרway·yō·mersaidH559
√ ʼâmar — to say (used with great latitude)Conjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
אֵלֶ֜יהָ’ê·le·hāto herH413
√ ʼêl — near, with or amongPrepositionthird person feminine singular
אָחִיךְ֮’ā·ḥîḵHas your brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructsecond person feminine singular
הַאֲמִינ֣וֹןha·’ă·mî·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidArticleNounpropermasculine singular
הָיָ֣הhā·yāhbeenH1961
√ hâyâh — to exist, iVerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singular
עִמָּךְ֒‘im·māḵwith youH5973
√ ʻim — adverb or preposition, with (iPrepositionsecond person feminine singular
הַחֲרִ֙ישִׁי֙ha·ḥă·rî·šîBe quietH2790
√ chârash — to scratch, iVerbHifilImperativefeminine singular
chârash — to be silent (Hifil imperative) The same root that means to engrave and to plough — and, in a different vocalisation, to devise or fabricate. Absalom commands silence with a word whose family includes secret contriving, and v. 22 shows him doing exactly that for two years.
וְעַתָּ֞הwə·‘at·tāhfor nowH6258
√ ʻattâh — at this time, whether adverb, conjunction or expletiveConjunctive wawAdverb
אֲחוֹתִ֤י’ă·ḥō·w·ṯîmy sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructfirst person common singular
ה֔וּאHeH1931
√ hûwʼ — he (she or it)Pronounthird person masculine singular
אָחִ֣יךְ’ā·ḥîḵis your brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructsecond person feminine singular
אַל־’al-Do notH408
√ ʼal — not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative)Adverb
תָּשִׁ֥יתִיtā·šî·ṯîtakeH7896
√ shîyth — to place (in a very wide application)VerbQalImperfectsecond person feminine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
הַזֶּ֑הhaz·zehthisH2088
√ zeh — the masculine demonstrative pronoun, this or thatArticlePronounmasculine singular
לַדָּבָ֣רlad·dā·ḇārthingH1697
√ dâbâr — a wordPreposition-l, ArticleNounmasculine singular
לִבֵּ֖ךְlib·bêḵto heartH3820
√ lêb — the heartNounmasculine singular constructsecond person feminine singular
lêb — the heart “Do not set thy heart to this thing.” The heart-word returns after the heart-cakes of vv. 6, 8 and 10; the chapter's running pun closes on a man telling his ruined sister not to feel it.
תָּמָר֙tā·mārSo TamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
וַתֵּ֤שֶׁבwat·tê·šeḇlivedH3427
√ yâshab — properly, to sit down (specifically as judgeConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person feminine singular
yâshab — to sit down, to dwell Strong's notes the sense “to sit down (specifically as judge).” Tamar sits in a house where no judgment ever comes.
וְשֹׁ֣מֵמָ֔הwə·šō·mê·māhas a desolateH8076
√ shâmêm — ruinedConjunctive wawVerbQalParticiplefeminine singular
shâmêm — ruined, laid waste, desolate The vocabulary of devastated territory: a land made shᵉmâmâh, a city without inhabitant, the desolate woman of Isaiah 54:1 set against the married wife — a passage Cambridge cites here. Applied to a living person it means something has happened to her that ordinarily happens to a country after an army has passed through. Isaiah 54 then promises that the desolate one will have more children than the married; the narrator of 2 Samuel offers Tamar no such sequel, and the silence is deliberate.
בֵּ֖יתbêṯwoman in the houseH1004
√ bayith — a house (in the greatest variation of applications, especially family, etcNounmasculine singular construct
אָחִֽיהָ׃’ā·ḥî·hāof her brotherH251
√ ʼâch — a brother (used in the widest sense of literal relationship and metaphorical affinity or resemblance (like father))Nounmasculine singular constructthird person feminine singular
אַבְשָׁל֥וֹם’aḇ·šā·lō·wmAbsalomH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
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Absalom urged her to bear the outrage patiently, and avoid a public scandal; feeling sure that David would not be persuaded to inflict an adequate punishment on Amnon, and intending to watch his own opportunity for revenge.
i.e., as one laid waste, with the joy of her life hopelessly destroyed.
Desolate; neglected and forsaken by others, none now seeking her in marriage; and through shame and dejection of mind, giving herself up to solitude and retirement.
not seeing any company, being filled with grief and shame, and none applying to her as a suitor, knowing she was vitiated; how long she continued here, or lived after this, is not certain; no mention is made of her afterwards.
21“When King David heard all this, he was furious.”+

21When King David heard all this, he was furious.

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wə·ham·me·leḵ dā·wiḏ šā·ma‘ ’êṯ kāl- hā·’êl·leh had·də·ḇā·rîm way·yi·ḥar lōw mə·’ōḏ

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-the-king David heard all these things, and-it-burned to-him exceedingly.

Where the English smooths the original

  • וַיִּ֥חַר ל֖וֹ וַיִּ֥חַר ל֖וֹ (way·yi·ḥar lōw, Qal of chârâh, H2734) — Strong's: “to glow or grow warm.” The Hebrew idiom is impersonal: “it burned to him.” BSB's “he was furious” makes David the agent of his own anger. The Hebrew describes a heat that happens to a man — and, in this verse, produces nothing.
  • מְאֹֽד׃ מְאֹֽד׃ (mᵉʼôd, H3966) — the third use of this adverb in the unit: Jonadab was very wise (v. 3), Amnon hated very greatly (v. 15), David burned very greatly (v. 21). BSB translates all three differently. The Hebrew measures cleverness, hatred and paternal rage with one word, and only the first two accomplish anything.
  • שָׁמַ֕ע שָׁמַ֕ע (šā·ma‘, H8085) — Strong's: “to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience).” BSB's “heard all this” is right. The root has already been the chapter's moral test: Amnon would not hear her voice (vv. 14, 16). Now the king hears everything — and the verse stops.
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וְהַמֶּ֣לֶךְwə·ham·me·leḵWhen KingH4428
√ melek — a kingConjunctive waw, ArticleNounmasculine singular
דָּוִ֔דdā·wiḏDavidH1732
√ Dâvid — David, the youngest son of JesseNounpropermasculine singular
שָׁמַ֕עšā·ma‘heardH8085
√ shâmaʻ — to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience, etcVerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singular
shâmaʻ — to hear intelligently, with obedience The chapter's hearing-verb completes its circuit: Amnon would not hear his sister, and David hears everything and acts on nothing. Under the law he had (Lev 20:17), hearing this case was supposed to oblige him.
אֵ֥ת’êṯH853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
כָּל־kāl-allH3605
√ kôl — properly, the wholeNounmasculine singular construct
kôl — the whole, all “All these things” — he was not partially informed. The text forecloses the excuse of ignorance.
הָאֵ֑לֶּהhā·’êl·lehthisH428
√ ʼêl-leh — these or thoseArticlePronouncommon plural
הַדְּבָרִ֖יםhad·də·ḇā·rîmH1697
√ dâbâr — a wordArticleNounmasculine plural
וַיִּ֥חַרway·yi·ḥarhe was furiousH2734
√ chârâh — to glow or grow warmConjunctive wawVerbQalConsecutive imperfectthird person masculine singular
chârâh — to glow, to burn (with anger) The verb used of God's kindled anger and of Cain's face falling. A king's kindled anger in the Hebrew Bible is normally the prelude to an act; here it is the whole of the response. The narrator records the emotion and omits the verdict, and the omission is the indictment. Pulpit measures David by Eli, who was punished for exactly this failure (1 Sam 2:34).
ל֖וֹlōw. . .
Prepositionthird person masculine singular
מְאֹֽד׃mə·’ōḏ. . .H3966
√ mᵉʼôd — properly, vehemence, iAdverb
mᵉʼôd — vehemence, exceedingly The unit's measuring word, spent for the third and last time.
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This want of justice in David's conduct, and favoritism to Amnon, probably rankled in Absalom's heart, and was the first seed of his after rebellion.
Barnes bases this on the Septuagint plus, which he calls a good explanation; the Hebrew gives no reason for David's inaction.
at the same time it is nothing but a subjective conjecture of the translators, and does not warrant us in altering the text.
It would have been wise to have given proof that his repentance included the suppression of the crime to which his previous conduct had given encouragement.
22“And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, beca…”+

22And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for violating his sister Tamar.

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’aḇ·šā·lō·wm wə·lō- ḏib·ber ‘im- ’am·nō·wn ṭō·wḇ lə·mê·rā‘ wə·‘aḏ- kî- ’aḇ·šā·lō·wm ’eṯ- śā·nê ’am·nō·wn ‘al- də·ḇar ’ă·šer ‘in·nāh ’êṯ ’ă·ḥō·ṯōw tā·mār

Literal — word-for-word from the original

And-Absalom spoke not with Amnon from-good and-unto-evil — for Absalom hated Amnon upon the-matter that he-had-humbled Tamar his-sister.

Where the English smooths the original

  • לְמֵרָ֣ע וְעַד־ט֑וֹב מֵרָ֣ע וְעַד־ט֑וֹב (raʻ H7451 … ṭôwb H2896, with “from… and unto”) — a merism: “from bad to good,” meaning not one word of any kind. BSB's “either good or bad” gives the sense and loses the idiom, which Cambridge, Poole and K&D all cross-reference to Genesis 24:50 and 31:24. The construction is used elsewhere of God warning a man to say nothing at all; here it describes a two-year silence with murder inside it.
  • כִּֽי־שָׂנֵ֤א כִּֽי־ (kîy, H3588) — BSB reads it as causal: “because he hated Amnon.” Gill and Poole both argue for the adversative: “or rather, but, or though Absalom… for the following clause is not added as a reason of the former, but by way of exception or opposition.” The particle carries both; the difference is whether Absalom's silence expressed his hatred or concealed it.
  • עִנָּ֔ה עִנָּ֔ה (ʻin·nāh, Piel perfect of ʻânâh, H6031) — “he had humbled her.” BSB's “for violating his sister Tamar” is right in force. The unit closes on the same verb Tamar used to beg him not to (v. 12) and the narrator used to say he did (v. 14). Three occurrences, three speakers, and the last one is the motive for a killing.
  • דְּבַר֙ דְּבַר֙ (dâbâr, H1697) — “upon the matter/word that he humbled her.” The same noun Absalom used in v. 20 when he told Tamar not to set her heart to “this thing.” BSB uses “thing” there and drops it here. The word he told his sister to forget is the word the narrator says he never forgot.
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אַבְשָׁל֛וֹם’aḇ·šā·lō·wmAnd AbsalomH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
וְלֹֽא־wə·lō-neverH3808
√ lôʼ — not (the simple or absConjunctive wawAdverbNegative particle
דִבֶּ֧רḏib·bersaid a wordH1696
√ dâbar — perhaps properly, to arrangeVerbPielPerfectthird person masculine singular
dâbar — to speak, arrange (Piel) The verb of speech, negated. Tamar was told to be silent (v. 20); David said nothing that is recorded (v. 21); Absalom spoke neither good nor bad. The unit ends with three silences and one scream still echoing from v. 19.
עִם־‘im-toH5973
√ ʻim — adverb or preposition, with (iPreposition
אַמְנ֖וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
ט֑וֹבṭō·wḇeither goodH2896
√ ṭôwb — good (as an adjective) in the widest senseNounmasculine singular
ṭôwb — good, in the widest sense Half of the merism, and the last appearance of the word good in this account of the house of David.
לְמֵרָ֣עlə·mê·rā‘or badH7451
√ raʻ — bad or (as noun) evil (natural or moral)Preposition-l, Preposition-mAdjectivemasculine singular
וְעַד־wə·‘aḏ-. . .H5704
√ ʻad — as far (or long, or much) as, whether of space (even unto) or time (during, while, until) or degree (equally with)Conjunctive wawPreposition
כִּֽי־kî-becauseH3588
√ kîy — (by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below)Conjunction
אַבְשָׁלוֹם֙’aḇ·šā·lō·wmheH53
√ ʼĂbîyshâlôwm — Abshalom, a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
אֶת־’eṯ-H853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
שָׂנֵ֤אśā·nêhatedH8130
√ sânêʼ — to hate (personally)VerbQalPerfectthird person masculine singular
sânêʼ — to hate personally (Qal) The chapter's last use of the verb that defined Amnon in v. 15. Amnon's hatred followed his lust and destroyed a woman; Absalom's hatred follows an injustice and will destroy a man. The narrator gives them the same verb without grading them, and leaves 2 Samuel 13:23-29 to show what it costs.
אַמְנ֔וֹן’am·nō·wnAmnonH550
√ ʼAmnôwn — Amnon (or Aminon), a son of DavidNounpropermasculine singular
עַל־‘al-forH5921
√ ʻal — above, over, upon, or against (yet always in this last relation with a downward aspect) in a great variety of applicationsPreposition
דְּבַר֙də·ḇar. . .H1697
√ dâbâr — a wordNounmasculine singular construct
אֲשֶׁ֣ר’ă·šerH834
√ ʼăsher — who, which, what, thatPronounrelative
עִנָּ֔ה‘in·nāhviolatingH6031
√ ʻânâh — to depress literally or figuratively, transitive or intransitive (in various applications, as follows)VerbPielPerfectthird person masculine singular
ʻânâh — to humble, afflict (Piel) The unit's defining verb in its final occurrence. The chapter refuses a euphemism at exactly the three points where it matters: the victim's plea, the narrative of the act, and the brother's stated motive. Whatever else this house will not say out loud, the text has said it three times.
אֵ֖ת’êṯH853
√ ʼêth — properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)Direct object marker
אֲחֹתֽוֹ׃פ’ă·ḥō·ṯōwhis sisterH269
√ ʼâchôwth — a sister (used very widely (like brother), literally and figuratively)Nounfeminine singular constructthird person masculine singular
תָּמָ֥רtā·mārTamarH8559
√ Tâmâr — Tamar, the name of three women and a placeNounproperfeminine singular
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Though he outwardly expressed no dislike of the fact, yet he inwardly hated him.
But by the method Absalom pursued, Amnon was lulled asleep, in a belief that he would give him no trouble for what he had done.
Absalom's outward demeanour was one of utter indifference, concealing a cruel determination. It is strange how unlike the son was to the father.

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i. The seam that is really a sentence — 1-2

The unit opens with וַיְהִ֣י אַֽחֲרֵי־כֵ֗ן — “and it came to pass after so.” Ellicott warns that the formula “applies to the narrative which follows as a whole,” and Pulpit agrees it “has little chronological force”: it is a seam, not a date. But Benson and Gill both read the seam theologically. Benson: “Now began another part of Nathan's prophecy, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house.” Gill is blunter still — after the sin, the repentance, the pardon and Solomon's birth, “yet after all this the divine threatenings must take place.” K&D, working from the marriage to Maacah at Hebron, places the events no earlier than the twentieth year of David's reign. So: a chapter that begins with a vague connective is in fact the second instalment of a named judgment. ✦ The two commentators who see prophecy here are not reading it into the text; 2 Samuel 12:11 is the text they are reading it from.

Verse 2 gives the interior. וַיֵּ֨צֶר — “it was narrow to Amnon” — is, as Pulpit observes, the Hebrew idiom in which distress is confinement and joy is space. K&D renders it “he quite pined away,” and insists (against Luther) that this sickness is real; the pretence only begins at v. 5. And the one barrier is named with the verb וַיִּפָּלֵא֙ (pâlâʼ, H6381), “it was too wonderful” — the verb of what lies beyond human reach. K&D: “The maidenly modesty of Tamar evidently raised an insuperable barrier to the gratification of his lusts.”

ii. Wisdom without fear — 3-5

Jonadab is introduced with two neutral words that the translators must gamble on. He is a רֵ֗עַ — Strong's “an associate (more or less close)” — and he is חָכָ֖ם מְאֹֽד, “very wise.” Barnes takes the gamble: “Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good sense, but here, and in Job 5:13, it means crafty.” Cambridge refuses it: the word “pronounces no judgment on the way in which Jonadab misused his sagacity.” Benson will not even let the first word stand: “Amnon had a friend — Say rather an enemy.”

⚙ The narrator's restraint is the art here. He gives Jonadab the vocabulary of Proverbs and then lets us watch what that vocabulary does when the fear of the LORD is subtracted from it. The plan is a small masterpiece of applied psychology: it uses a real symptom (v. 2's wasting) as the raw material of a lie, it exploits a father's habit of visiting his sons, and it hands Amnon the one word he had refused to say. In v. 4 Amnon says “Tamar, sister of Absalom my brother” — Gill notices exactly why: “he does not call her his sister, but Absalom's sister, to lessen his sin.” In v. 5 Jonadab scripts him: “my sister Tamar.” Gill again: “the more to cover his ill design upon her.” Geneva draws the standing lesson: “there is no enterprise so wicked that it cannot be encouraged to further wickedness.”

iii. The king who sent her — 6-10

Amnon performs the illness and makes his request to “the king” — the narrator's title, not “his father.” JFB catches the calculation in the wording: to the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as “his sister,” “a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father.” The request itself is built on a triple repetition English cannot keep: לְעֵינַי, before my eyes (v. 5, v. 6, and executed in v. 8), and מִיָּדָהּ, from her hand (vv. 5, 6, 10). And the food is לְבִבוֹת, heart-cakes — K&D, “a heart-strengthening kind of pastry”; Barnes, a word that “occur[s] nowhere else”; Gill, named “either from the form of them… or from the effect of them, comforting and refreshing the heart.”

Then David sends. וַיִּשְׁלַ֥ח (shâlach, H7971) is the verb, and it will return in Piel at v. 16 for the sending-away Tamar calls the greater evil. Poole finds David's blindness so implausible that he attributes it to providence — God “blinded David's mind, that he might bring upon him the designed and threatened judgments.” ✦ Poole's explanation is theological inference; the text gives the king no motive at all, which may be the harsher reading. Verse 8 then lists four feminine verbs in a row — took, kneaded, hearted, boiled — and Gill's note on her state of mind is the right one: she came “with an innocent breast, having no suspicion of any design upon her chastity.”

iv. “Do not do this folly in Israel” — 11-14

When the room is empty Amnon seizes her: וַיַּֽחֲזֶק־בָּהּ, Hifil of châzaq (H2388) — the verb of a strong grip. K&D: “when she handed him the food, he laid hold of her.” Gill registers the obscenity of the vocative: “one would think the relation he observes she stood in to him would have checked him.”

Tamar's answer is the theological centre of the unit, and it is argued, not merely felt. She names the act נְבָלָה (nebalah, H5039). Barnes: “Tamar's words are a verbal quotation from Genesis 34:7. The natural inference is that Tamar knew the passage in Genesis.” K&D concurs: the words “recall Genesis 34:7, where the expression ‘folly’ (nebalah) is first used to denote a want of chastity.” Her premise is national and covenantal — Cambridge: “Israel was a holy nation… therefore all acts of unchastity were an offence against the true character and calling of the nation.” Pulpit adds the Hebrew force BSB hides: “Do not force me; literally, do not humble me… it bears testimony to the nobleness of the Hebrew women, who regarded their chastity as their crown of honour.”

Her last argument — “speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from thee” — is the one the commentators unanimously refuse to take at face value. Ellicott: “she made any and every suggestion to gain time.” Cambridge: “hoping to escape immediate violence.” K&D quotes Clericus, “that she might escape from his hands by any means in her power,” and Josephus to the same effect. Poole allows one further possibility — that she thought “her royal father could or would dispense with it.” ⚙ Whichever is true, the Levitical prohibition (Lev 18:9, 11; 20:17) stands, and the narrator does not need to cite it; he lets Tamar's own phrase “such a thing is not done in Israel” carry the law. Then v. 14, and the narrative goes as flat as a police report: he would not listen, he was stronger, he humbled her, he lay with her. K&D's whole comment is one sentence long. The restraint is the judgment.

v. The hatred greater than the love — 15-19

Verse 15 is the verse that redefines verse 1. The Hebrew piles the roots up: שִׂנְאָהשְׂנֵאָהּהַשִּׂנְאָה (sinʼâh / sânêʼ, H8135/H8130) against אַהֲבָהאֲהֵבָהּ (ʼahăbâh / ʼâhab, H160/H157) — hatred, hated, the hatred, greater than the love, he loved her. Ellicott quotes Tacitus by way of Kirkpatrick: “It is characteristic of human nature to hate one whom you have injured,” and concludes that “Amnon was governed, not by love, but by mere animal passion.” K&D says it most exactly: the reversal “furnishes a striking proof that lust is not love, but simply the gratification of the animal passions.” Benson locates the mechanism in conscience: “he hated his sister when he should have hated himself.”

Tamar protests, and here the text itself fails. Cambridge: “The Heb. text cannot be so translated, and is certainly corrupt”; Barnes: “The Hebrew text is probably corrupt”; Pulpit canvasses Philippsohn and Cahen and concedes “Flat as this is, no better rendering is possible”; K&D salvages a sense by supplying a verb. What survives every reconstruction is her claim: the expulsion is a greater evil than the rape. Poole explains why — being thrown out made it look “as if she had been an impudent strumpet, and had either enticed him to the sin, or at least consented to it.” K&D adds the legal point that seals it: she could not cry for help as Deuteronomy 22:27 requires, because Amnon had removed the witnesses himself.

Then the robe. כְּתֹ֣נֶת פַּסִּ֔ים — the phrase used elsewhere only of Joseph (Gen 37:3, 23, 32), as Ellicott, Barnes, Cambridge, Pulpit and K&D all note. K&D draws the conclusion: “Notwithstanding this dress, by which a king's daughter could at once be recognised, Amnon's servant treated Tamar like a common woman.” And Tamar, torn robe, ashes, hand on head, “went, going and crying” — Cambridge: “Went away shrieking as she went; not lamenting with silent tears, but with loud passionate shrieks and wailing.” ⚙ She is the only person in this chapter who tells the truth out loud.

vi. Three silences — 20-22

The unit ends by recording what three men did with what they knew. Absalom says הַחֲרִ֙ישִׁי֙ (Hifil of chârash, H2790) — be silent — and Cambridge reads his calculation: he urged her “to bear the outrage patiently, and avoid a public scandal; feeling sure that David would not be persuaded to inflict an adequate punishment on Amnon, and intending to watch his own opportunity for revenge.” Tamar sits שֹׁמֵמָה (shâmêm, H8076) — K&D: “as one laid waste, with the joy of her life hopelessly destroyed,” and he adds that the word cannot simply mean “solitary.” Poole: “none now seeking her in marriage.” Gill notes the silence that follows her: “no mention is made of her afterwards.”

David hears and is וַיִּ֥חַר לוֹ מְאֹד — it burned to him exceedingly — and does nothing. Barnes and Cambridge both record that the Septuagint supplies the reason here (“he did not vex the spirit of Amnon his son, because he loved him, because he was his firstborn”); K&D, with more caution, calls that addition “nothing but a subjective conjecture of the translators,” which “does not warrant us in altering the text.” ✦ The honest position is K&D's: the LXX plus is an ancient explanation, not the Hebrew. Pulpit supplies the standard from within the book itself — Eli was punished for exactly this failure (1 Sam 2:34) — and Barnes supplies the consequence: David's want of justice “probably rankled in Absalom's heart, and was the first seed of his after rebellion.” Then the last silence, and the one that kills: Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad. Poole reads the Hebrew particle as adversative — “though Absalom hated him” — and Pulpit puts the family in one line: “It is strange how unlike the son was to the father.”

Read under Sola Scriptura — this tool’s own fallible reading (⚙)

⚙ This is the tool's own fallible reading, offered to be tested. Three things in this text seem to me to be doing the load-bearing work, and only the third is usually preached.

First: the chapter is an anatomy of how a word gets emptied. אָח and אָחוֹת — brother, sister — occur relentlessly here (H251 and H269 together appear in nearly every scene), and every single occurrence is a lie or a wound. Jonadab tells Amnon to say “my sister” so that the word will do work its speaker does not mean. Amnon says “lie with me, my sister.” Absalom says “he is thy brother; do not take this thing to heart.” Kinship language, in this chapter, is the instrument of the crime and then the instrument of the cover-up. Where a word of covenant is used to procure and then to silence, that is a specific and nameable evil, and Scripture names it by simply repeating the word until the reader flinches.

Second: the narrator gives Tamar the only theology in the chapter. Everyone else speaks strategy. Jonadab speaks tactics, Amnon speaks appetite, Absalom speaks containment, David says nothing at all that is recorded. Tamar alone argues from what Israel is: “such a thing is not done in Israel.” She appeals to the law, to shame, to his own future, and finally, desperately, to the king. She is the one person here who treats the covenant as real, and she is the one person here who is destroyed. That is not a problem for the text; it is the text's indictment of the house of David.

Third, and this is where I am least sure: the standard reading makes this chapter the payment of Nathan's bill (2 Sam 12:11), and Benson, Gill and K&D all read it that way. I think that is right but incomplete. Nathan's oracle is addressed to David, and the chapter is careful to punish David — his eldest dead within twenty verses, his favourite in exile, his throne lost for a season. But Tamar is not David's punishment. She is a person, and the narrative refuses to tidy her away into a lesson: she gets a name, a robe, a protest, ashes, a scream, and then a sentence that says she lived desolate and was never mentioned again. Any reading of this chapter that can account for David's chastisement but cannot account for Tamar has not read the chapter. Under Sola Scriptura the burden is on us to say what the text says about her, and what it says is that God let it be written down, in detail, under her own name, which is more than her father, her brother, or her rapist gave her.

Kinship was the word they used to get her into the room, and the word they used to keep her quiet after.

Canonical Threads — out to the whole of Scripturecross-refs · verify+

AI-generated connections. Each carries a verification badge with a recorded basis; contested links are flagged.

“Folly in Israel” — Tamar quotes Dinah's chapter back at her brother structural / thematic — confirmed

Tamar's protest in v. 12, כִּי לֹא־יֵעָשֶׂה כֵן בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל — “for such a thing is not done in Israel” — with the noun נְבָלָה (nebalah, H5039), lands on Genesis 34:7, the rape of Dinah, where the phrase is coined. Barnes states the case: “Tamar's words are a verbal quotation from Genesis 34:7. The natural inference is that Tamar knew the passage in Genesis, and wished to profit by the warning that it contained.” K&D agrees that the words “recall Genesis 34:7, where the expression ‘folly’ (nebalah) is first used to denote a want of chastity,” and Ellicott has her “quoting the very words of Genesis 34:7… to recall the king's son to a sense of right.” ⚙ The parallel runs past the phrase: a violated daughter, a father who does nothing, a full brother who waits and then kills. Genesis 34 is the template of 2 Samuel 13, and Tamar is the only character who seems to know it.

Genesis 34:7 · Genesis 34:31

basis: Verifier on 2 Sam 13:12 ↔ Gen 34:7: shared H5039 nᵉbâlâh (in 13 vv), plus H3651 kên, H3588 kîy, H3808 lôʼ (all common). The machine tiers this structural. Barnes, Ellicott and K&D call it a verbal quotation; a 13-verse lexeme plus the identical idiom supports that, but the Verifier did not certify quotation, so the badge stays at the lower tier and the verbal claim is attributed to the commentators.

The robe of many colours — Joseph's coat on Tamar's back verbal / quotation — confirmed

Verse 18's כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים (kᵉthôneth passîm, H3801 + H6446) is the phrase of Joseph's coat, and of nothing else in the Hebrew Bible. Ellicott: “The word is used only here and in connection with Joseph (Genesis 37:3; 37:23; 37:32).” Cambridge and K&D read it as a long sleeved tunic, the badge of the king's virgin daughters; Pulpit prefers a patterned garment “like those of the Scottish tartans.” The function is agreed: K&D — “by which a king's daughter could at once be recognised.” ⚙ And in both places the robe is a mark of a father's favour that gets torn: Joseph's is stripped and dipped in blood by brothers, Tamar's is rent by her own hands after a brother. Both garments then become evidence carried to a grieving father.

Genesis 37:3 · Genesis 37:23 · Genesis 37:31-33

basis: Verifier on 2 Sam 13:18 ↔ Gen 37:3: shared H6446 paç (in 5 vv — rare) and H3801 kᵉthôneth (in 26 vv). The rare lexeme paç occurs in only these two narratives, which is a genuine verbal link; it is an allusion, not a quotation, and no speech is being cited.

The rare verb of feeding — bârâh, from a sickbed to the siege of Jerusalem verbal / quotation — confirmed

The verb behind “give me something to eat” in vv. 5, 6 and 10 is בָּרָה (bârâh, H1262), which Strong's glosses “to select,” and which the whole Hebrew Bible uses in only six verses. Two of them are in this unit. One is 2 Samuel 3:35, where David refuses to be fed after Abner's murder. One is 1 Samuel 17:8, Goliath's challenge. And one is Lamentations 4:10, where the hands of compassionate women “cooked (bâshal, H1310) their own children; they became their food.” ⚙ The Verifier pairs our unit with Lamentations 4:10 on both roots at once: bârâh and bâshal — precisely the two verbs of Tamar's cooking in v. 8. The link is lexical, not literary: Lamentations is not alluding to Tamar. But the pairing exposes the register the narrator has chosen. Women's hands preparing food is, in this rare vocabulary, where Israel's worst horrors are staged.

Lamentations 4:10 · 2 Samuel 3:35 · 1 Samuel 17:8

basis: Verifier THREAD CANDIDATES: 2 Sam 13 ↔ Lamentations 4:10 shares H1262 bârâh (in 6 vv — rare) and H1310 bâshal (in 24 vv); 2 Sam 3:35 shares H1262 bârâh with H3972 mᵉʼûwmâh and H3899 lechem; 1 Sam 17:8 shares H1262 bârâh. A real verbal link on a six-verse lexeme, with no quotation claimed in either direction.

“Evil out of thine own house” — the bill Nathan wrote structural / thematic — confirmed

Benson opens his note on v. 1 with it: “Now began another part of Nathan's prophecy, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, to be awfully fulfilled On David.” Gill lists the instalments — the child of the adultery dead, “and others here follow.” K&D, at v. 21, ties David's paralysis to the same root cause: “The fact that David was contented to be simply angry is probably to be accounted for partly from his own consciousness of guilt, since he himself had been guilty of adultery.” Pulpit agrees and sharpens it: David “could not… carry out the law against his firstborn for following his example.” ⚙ The link is not verbal but structural and it is named by four independent commentators: the sin of 2 Samuel 11 reappears as an inability to prosecute the same sin in 2 Samuel 13. The judgment is not that God struck David; it is that David could no longer act like a king.

2 Samuel 12:10-12 · 2 Samuel 11:4 · 1 Kings 1:6

basis: No Verifier-computed lexeme basis was supplied for this pair; the link is a shared narrative pattern (a royal taking, a covered-up sexual crime, an unpunished house) asserted by Benson, Gill, K&D, Barnes and Pulpit on the text of 2 Sam 12:11. Recorded as structural, with no quotation or verbal claim.

The law that is never cited — Leviticus, and why the Verifier finds nothing flagged — verify source

Every commentator here reaches for Leviticus 18:9, 18:11 and 20:17: Ellicott (“strictly forbidden in the Law”), Cambridge (“expressly forbidden by the Mosaic law”), K&D (who notes the penalty was death), Pulpit, Barnes. Cambridge and Barnes both raise the counter-evidence: Abraham and Sarah were half-siblings (Gen 20:12), and Tamar herself says the king “will not withhold me from thee.” ⚙ But we ran the pair, and the Verifier returns nothing: no shared original-language lexeme found in the index. That is worth recording honestly. The law is not quoted in this chapter. Tamar's argument in v. 12 is made from nebalah and from Israel's character, not from a statute — and Amnon's reply (v. 14) does not argue at all. The commentators' appeal to Leviticus is legally correct and exegetically unproven by the text's own wording.

Leviticus 18:9 · Leviticus 20:17 · Deuteronomy 22:25-27

basis: Verifier on 2 Sam 13:13 ↔ Lev 20:17: “no shared original-language lexeme found in the index — connection, if any, is thematic/structural and must be argued, not asserted.” The link is asserted by Ellicott, Cambridge, Barnes, Pulpit and K&D on legal grounds; flagged because the chapter never cites the statute. K&D's use of Deut 22:27 (Tamar could not cry out because Amnon dismissed the witnesses) is likewise commentary inference, not a textual citation.

Cross-Testament: “not so much as named among the Gentiles” structural / thematic — confirmed

Tamar's claim is jurisdictional: this is not done in Israel. Cambridge states the premise — “Israel was a holy nation, sanctified by the peculiar presence of Jehovah among them… Such acts might be common among heathen nations, but to Israel they were forbidden.” Paul makes the identical move in reverse at 1 Corinthians 5:1: a sexual sin within the family “such as is not so much as named among the Gentiles.” Both texts argue from the identity of the covenant community rather than from a penalty, and both then turn on the community's refusal to act — Paul's Corinthians are “puffed up” and have not mourned; David is “very wroth” and does nothing. ⚙ The formal parallel is mine; neither text cites the other.

1 Corinthians 5:1-2 · 1 Corinthians 5:13

basis: Cross-Testament Greek↔Hebrew: no shared Strong's number is possible and none is claimed. The recorded basis is a shared rhetorical structure — an appeal to the covenant community's distinctness as the ground of sexual prohibition, followed by the community's failure to discipline — grounded in Cambridge's note on v. 12. Never tiered verbal.

Christ in the Unittypology · verify+

AI-generated reading; weigh it against the text.

“Whither shall I carry my reproach?” — the question the Son answered novel

Tamar's cry in v. 13 turns on חֶרְפָּתִי (cherpâh, H2781), which Strong's glosses “contumely, disgrace.” Barnes prefers “my reproach” to “my shame,” and cross-references Genesis 30:23, 34:14 and 1 Samuel 11:2. She has nowhere to take it: no court will hear her, her father will not act, her brother tells her to be quiet. ⚙ The Psalter gives that word to a sufferer who does have somewhere to take it — “the reproaches (cherpôth) of them that reproached thee are fallen upon me” (Ps 69:9) — and Paul applies precisely that verse to Christ in Romans 15:3. Hebrews completes the figure: Jesus “suffered without the gate,” and the church is called to go out to him “bearing his reproach.” Tamar is put outside a bolted door carrying a disgrace that was not hers. Christ goes outside a gate carrying a disgrace that was not his — and, unlike her, he carries it on purpose and it does not stay.

The Ps 69 → Christ reading is apostolic and ancient. The application to Tamar is mine, and I offer it as a figure, not as the text's own claim.

Psalm 69:9 · Romans 15:3 · Hebrews 13:12-13

The torn tunic and the tunic not torn novel

The Verifier confirms the rare lexeme: פַּסִּים (paç, H6446, five verses in all) binds Tamar's robe to Joseph's, and Ellicott, Barnes, Cambridge, Pulpit and K&D all note the connection independently. Joseph as a type of Christ — the beloved son, stripped of his robe, sold by brothers, given up for dead, raised to the right hand of a throne and made the saviour of the very brothers who sold him — is one of the oldest figural readings in the church, and it is not controversial. ⚙ What this unit adds is the third robe. At the cross the soldiers would not tear the chitōn, the seamless tunic, but cast lots for it (John 19:23-24). Joseph's coat was torn by brothers and dipped in blood; Tamar's was torn by her own hands over ashes; Christ's was left whole while the body under it was broken. The garment that could not be divided belonged to the one person in the story who was.

Joseph-typology: ancient and widely held. The Tamar leg of this reading is mine and is figural; I do not claim the evangelist had 2 Samuel 13 in view.

Genesis 37:31-33 · John 19:23-24 · Isaiah 53:3

A house that could not judge, and a King who can ancient/widely-held

The unit ends on a failure of kingship. David hears, burns, and does nothing; Barnes reports the Septuagint's explanation and its consequence (“this want of justice in David's conduct… was the first seed of his after rebellion”), while K&D refuses to import the LXX plus into the Hebrew and grounds the paralysis in David's own guilt. Pulpit measures him by Eli (1 Sam 2:34). ⚙ 2 Samuel 13 is therefore an argument, by exhaustion, that the house of David cannot supply the judge that Israel needs — and it is Nathan's oracle that makes the failure structural rather than personal. Against that, the promise of 2 Samuel 7 keeps standing: a son of David whose throne is established forever. Isaiah names what that son will do with a case like Tamar's — he will not judge by what his eyes see (and this chapter is full of eyes) but “with righteousness shall he judge the poor (dal, the very word used of wasted Amnon in v. 4), and reprove with equity for the meek of the earth.” The gospel writers place Jesus on that throne.

That the Davidic promise runs through and beyond David's failures to Christ is the ancient and widely held apostolic reading (Acts 2:29-31; Rom 1:3); the specific use of this chapter as the counter-case is my framing.

2 Samuel 7:12-16 · Isaiah 11:3-4 · Acts 2:29-31

Apparatus & Provenance

The biblical text is the Berean Standard Bible (BSB), public domain (CC0). Hebrew/Greek text, transliteration, morphology and Strong’s are transcribed from the Berean interlinear (CC0) + Strong’s lexicons (PD); the literal renderings, divergence notes, word notes and all synthesis are this tool’s own work (⚙) — fallible; verify them.

Named voices, quoted verbatim from public-domain works:

Text. Verse 16 is genuinely broken and every voice here says so. Cambridge: “The Heb. text cannot be so translated, and is certainly corrupt,” and proposes the Old Latin witness to the Septuagint: “Nay, my brother, for greater will be this latter wrong…” Barnes: “The Hebrew text is probably corrupt, and the writer blends Tamar's words with his own narrative.” Pulpit canvasses Philippsohn and Cahen, concedes “Flat as this is, no better rendering is possible,” and points to the Vatican Septuagint. K&D alone defends the Masoretic reading by supplying an elided verb. Our literal rendering follows the Masoretic consonants and flags the difficulty rather than adopting any emendation.

Text, second case. At v. 21 the Septuagint and the ordinary Vulgate add a clause absent from the Hebrew: “he did not vex the spirit of Amnon his son, because he loved him, because he was his firstborn.” Barnes calls it “a good explanation”; Ellicott and Cambridge both report it; K&D warns it “is nothing but a subjective conjecture of the translators, and does not warrant us in altering the text.” We have kept the Hebrew and reported the plus as a witness, not as Scripture. At v. 20 the Hebrew reads Aminon, not Amnon; Ellicott calls it a clerical error, Gill and Cambridge report the Jewish reading of it as a contemptuous diminutive, and Cambridge adds that it “may possibly be only an accidental variation.” We have not decided between them.

Lexicon. Three words in this unit are effectively unique and their meanings are therefore uncertain: lᵉbîbâh (H3834, the “heart-cakes”), masrêth (H4958, the “pan”), and the phrase kᵉthôneth passîm (H3801 + H6446). Barnes: the cake words “occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful.” K&D calls masrêth a hapax and says the etymology “is uncertain.” Pulpit thinks the Syriac may be right that the word in v. 9 is not the pan but the dish of food. Our divergence notes give the range and do not pretend to resolve it.

Threads. Every verbal badge in this unit rests on a Verifier-computed shared lexeme with its frequency stated. The Genesis 34:7 link is the one place where we have deliberately under-claimed against three named commentators: Barnes, Ellicott and K&D call it a verbal quotation, the Verifier tiers it structural, and we have followed the Verifier. The Leviticus link is flagged because the Verifier finds no shared lexeme at all — the law is assumed by the commentators, never cited by the chapter. The 1 Corinthians 5 thread is cross-Testament and cannot carry a verbal tier in principle.

⚙ Synthesis. The grand commentary's reading of kinship vocabulary as the chapter's instrument of harm, the sola reading's insistence that Tamar is not reducible to David's punishment, and both novel Christ entries are this tool's own fallible work, built on the sourced interlinear and the named voices but not asserted by any of them. Where the commentators assign motives the Hebrew does not state — JFB's “Tamar, flattered by the invitation,” Poole's providential blinding of David, Gill's reading of Amnon's intent back into v. 1 — we have flagged the inference in an editorial note rather than repeating it as fact.

= human, public-domain source, quoted and named. = machine synthesis, to be verified. Flagged cross-references are left visible on purpose — the verifier working in the open. “Search the Scriptures daily, whether those things were so.” (Acts 17:11)